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to palaver

to palaver

9.9
To get someone to do something by saying nice things
  • verb
  • /pəˈlævər/
  • Archaic
translation icon : persuadir
  • She palavered her parents with compliments until they agreed to let her go to the concert.

Examples

  • He managed to palaver his co-workers into staying late to help him finish the project.

  • She always palavers her way into the best parties.

  • They spent hours palavering the stubborn client, hoping he would accept their proposal.

  • Don't palaver me with empty promises!

  • She palavered her friends into joining her on the trip with sweet words and charm.

  • He tried to palaver his way out of trouble by flattering his teacher.

  • They palavered the difficult customer into seeing the benefits of their product.

Synonyms

to coax
vsto palaver
54 4.1

To gently persuade someone by being kind and patient

includes flattery and caressing as well as patient persuasion
to sweet-talk
vsto palaver
  • Informal
23 5.3

To persuade someone by saying nice things to them

adds nonverbal caressing and gentler urging beyond smooth talking
to cajole
vsto palaver
15 7.7

To persuade someone to do something by gentle talk and praise

can also include gentle caressing or broader flattering beyond repeated appeals
to wheedle
vsto palaver
5 7.9

To persuade someone by gentle praise or asking nicely

is the broader term with that same gentle persuading sense
to inveigle
vsto palaver
  • Formal
2 9.5

To get someone to do something by flattering or tricking them

is gentler and lacks the emphasis on trickery or sneakiness
to blarney
vsto palaver
9.5

Persuade someone with flattering talk to gain an advantage

is slightly more general and can involve physical caressing too
to engle
vsto palaver
  • Archaic
9.9

To gently persuade someone by praise or charm

is the modern common form rather than the archaic usage

Antonyms

35 6.0

To try to stop someone from doing something by talking to them

How Persuasive

to wheedle
5 7.9
to palaver
  • Archaic
9.9
to coax
54 4.1
to encourage
2.3
to suggest
1.6
to ask
1.0

Surface Forms

palaver infinitive
palavered past
palavered past participle
palavering present participle
palavers third person singular

Etymology

Palaver comes from the Portuguese word palavra 'word', and because it was used for long negotiations people used it for the kind of talking that wins others over. That's why to palaver someone can mean to persuade or coax them with smooth, gentle talk.