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to wheedle

to wheedle

5 7.9
To persuade someone by gentle praise or asking nicely
  • verb
  • /ˈwiːdəl/
translation icon : persuadir
  • She thinks she can wheedle me into seeing her.

And self doubt can sort of wheedle its way in, in very sort of nefarious ways.

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Examples

  • Dave excelled at wheedling favors, begging treats, and negotiating waivers from family rules.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • They'd wheedle their little finger around your heart as soon as look at you, all for their own purposes, mind!

  • Or should I be clever, wheedle it out of him?

  • The next step was trying to wheedle people into helping with the "heavy lifting."

    Blog text (18)
  • What I have tried to do is simply wheedle out a dozen themes that I thought were of some importance.

    Academic text (2001)
  • I've no time to wheedle the story out of you.

  • "You tell the truth, we can get you life," wheedled DJ.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • So we wheedled, cajoled, and absolutely insisted that Norman bring you round for tea.

  • "Today's your visitor day," Hana said, trying to wheedle a response from Mel.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • She tried to wheedle her parents into letting her stay out late on a school night.

Synonyms

to coax
vsto wheedle
54 4.1

To gently persuade someone by being kind and patient

uses flattering praise or soft urging rather than patient encouragement
to sweet-talk
vsto wheedle
  • Informal
23 5.3

To persuade someone by saying nice things to them

uses gentle urging including nonverbal actions rather than only words
to cajole
vsto wheedle
15 7.7

To persuade someone to do something by gentle talk and praise

uses gentle urging and flattering without repeated pressure
to inveigle
vsto wheedle
  • Formal
2 9.5

To get someone to do something by flattering or tricking them

persuades by gentle urging or flattery without purposeful deceit
to palaver
vsto wheedle
  • Archaic
9.9

To get someone to do something by saying nice things

uses gentle urging or flattery mainly through words not touch
to blarney
vsto wheedle
9.5

Persuade someone with flattering talk to gain an advantage

prefers gentle urging and soft praise rather than relying on talk
to engle
vsto wheedle
  • Archaic
9.9

To gently persuade someone by praise or charm

uses everyday gentle urging and flattering phrasing in current use

How Persuasive

to manipulate
382 6.1
to wheedle
5 7.9
to coax
54 4.1
to nudge
24 4.1
to encourage
2.3

Surface Forms

wheedle infinitive
wheedled past
wheedled past participle
wheedling present participle
wheedles third person singular

Etymology

Wheedle probably comes from old words that meant 'sweet talk' or 'flattery', and a helpful way to remember it is to picture someone whispering soft praise to get their way. So, to wheedle is to gently persuade or coax someone with flattering words.