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overbearing

overbearing

30 5.8
Being proud and trying to control other people
  • adjective
  • /ˌoʊvərˈbɛrɪŋ/
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  • And yet her overbearing father made sure she was always closely watched, so she was never quite as alone as she felt.
  • an overbearing manner

I found her to be overbearing, speaking over me.

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Examples

  • And whatever you do, do not appear overbearing.

  • I know the general may be... a little gruff and somewhat overbearing at times, but I know that he cares about you.

  • I found her to be overbearing, speaking over me.

  • But at the same time, I can imagine that can be quite overbearing as well.

  • I have to say, from our perspective, a lot of this happened as a result of the, um, overbearing pressure by the United States.

  • Dealt with an overbearing, rule obsessed boss.

  • I always found him overbearing, smug and self-important.

  • Dave considered his older brother an overbearing, impractical nerd.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • I'm sure America suffers an overbearing bureaucracy like Canada does or any other country.

    Blog text (5)
  • The manager's overbearing attitude made it difficult for the team to share their ideas.

Synonyms

pushy
vsoverbearing
  • Informal
75 5.0

Being rude and trying too hard to make people do what you want

adds an arrogant wish to control people rather than merely being forceful
condescending
vsoverbearing
65 7.4

Acting as if you are better than other people

is more about active domination and unpleasant control than patronizing tone
authoritarian
vsoverbearing
58 7.5

Expecting people to follow orders and allowing little freedom

is more about personal unpleasantness and arrogant control intent
bossy
vsoverbearing
  • Informal
46 2.6

Being quick to tell people what to do in a forceful, unpleasant way

is harsher and more openly arrogant when ordering others
dictatorial
vsoverbearing
16 7.7

Having complete control and expecting people to obey without question

is more personally unpleasant and also shows clear arrogance
heavy-handed
vsoverbearing
14 6.3

Using too much force or strict control when dealing with people

adds a clear arrogant attempt to control people personally
haughty
vsoverbearing
14 8.1

Acting proud and looking down on other people

places more emphasis on controlling others, not only feeling superior
domineering
vsoverbearing
12 7.4

Trying to control other people and not listening to their ideas

is more openly unpleasant and also arrogant when controlling
imperious
vsoverbearing
8 8.4

Acting like you are better than others and expecting them to obey you

is more focused on imposing unpleasant control as well as arrogance
disdainful
vsoverbearing
8 7.0

Showing that you think someone or something is not worth respect

adds active attempts to control others alongside the contemptuous attitude
paternalistic
vsoverbearing
  • Formal
8 8.1

Treating people like children by making decisions for them

is harsher and more openly arrogant rather than protective or kind
supercilious
vsoverbearing
4 8.9

Acting as if you are better than other people

is more active in controlling others, not only showing superiority
overaggressive
vsoverbearing
1 5.8

Too forceful or pushy in a way that makes other people uncomfortable

is more about unpleasant arrogance combined with control of others
sniffy
vsoverbearing
1 8.5

Acting as if you are better than other people

is more focused on forcing control and behaving unpleasantly toward others
dominating
vsoverbearing
1 5.6

Trying to control other people in a forceful or unfair way

combines that force with an unpleasant arrogant attitude
lordly
vsoverbearing
1 8.0

Acting very proud and treating others as unimportant

is stronger in trying to dominate and control beyond mere attitude
overdominant
vsoverbearing
8.2

A person who controls others too much and does not let them speak

adds an unpleasant arrogant manner to that excessive control
overcontrolling
vsoverbearing
6.3

Telling other people what to do too much

also conveys a harsh, arrogant desire to control people
bullying
vsoverbearing
  • Offensive
3.7

Being loud and aggressive to frighten others

is similar but also focuses on unpleasant arrogant superiority

Antonyms

222 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

38 5.1

Willing to obey others and not argue

How Dominating

tyrannical
25 7.9
overbearing
30 5.8
domineering
12 7.4
bossy
  • Informal
46 2.6

Surface Forms

overbearing positive

Morphology

overbearing = overbear (transparent) = over + bear + over + ing

Formed by adding the adjectival -ing to the verb 'overbear', retaining the predictable meaning 'domineering'.

Etymology

Overbearing comes from over ('too much') and bearing, from bear ('to carry' or 'to hold up'). Imagine someone who 'puts too much weight' on others and pushes them down or controls them. That's why overbearing means unpleasantly controlling or bossy.