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millstone

millstone

5 8.1
A heavy burden that makes life hard
  • noun
  • /ˈmɪlˌstoʊn/
  • Informal
translation icon : carga
  • He's a millstone around your neck.
  • millstone around my neck

So his big surprise has now become a big millstone round his neck.

Examples

  • Let us, as parents, remove the millstone from around our necks and bring our children a cup of cold water.

    Blog text (13)
  • The legacy was a millstone that would drag her down.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • And that is a millstone around your neck.

  • So his big surprise has now become a big millstone round his neck.

  • Five minutes ago, you were a millstone around my neck.

  • I would rather have a millstone around my neck than marry you!

    Fiction book (1997)
  • My anger over my losses was like a millstone around my neck.

    Blog text (11)
  • And as it gets worse and worse, I believe this will be the millstone around Barack Obama's neck that will take his presidency down.

    Blog text (19)
  • Always at my elbow, whispering his venom, in my house, in my business, like a millstone around my neck, bringing me to ruin!

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Managing a large project can often feel like a millstone around your neck when deadlines are tight.

Synonyms

load
vsmillstone
91 4.1

A heavy burden of worry or responsibility

is a figurative heavy burden focused on being hard to deal with
dead weight
vsmillstone
  • Offensive
22 4.4

A heavy object that is hard to carry, or a burden that slows progress

is a figurative heavy burden focused on difficulty to deal not literal heaviness
onus
vsmillstone
  • Formal
19 7.9

A difficult duty or burden someone must deal with

is a heavy figurative burden rather than a formal duty
weight of the world
vsmillstone
  • Informal
13 7.3

A heavy feeling of worry and responsibility

is a heavy duty hard to manage but less emotionally overwhelming
albatross
vsmillstone
  • Informal
6 8.4

A heavy problem that stays and keeps causing worry or trouble

is a heavy responsibility rather than a continual external obstacle
deadweight
vsmillstone
2 5.8

A person or thing that makes work slower

is a heavy responsibility difficult to carry but not mainly about slowing progress
monkey on one's back
vsmillstone
  • Informal
2 8.7

A problem that stays with you and causes worry

is a heavy burden that need not be continuously present or persistent
weight of responsibility
vsmillstone
  • Informal
1 4.9

A heavy feeling of pressure because you have important duties

is the same heavy burden but more general than feeling pressure

Antonyms

489 1.1

Not having to do something a rule requires

3 2.6

A small weight that feels easy to carry

Idioms

To try to understand something very confusing that seems impossible

How Burdensome

albatross
  • Informal
6 8.4
millstone
  • Informal
5 8.1
burden
482 3.4
bother
29 2.1

Surface Forms

millstone singular
millstones plural

Morphology

millstone = mill + stone (semi-transparent) = mill + stone

The figurative sense 'burden' is a metaphorical extension from a heavy grinding stone; the relation is inferable but not purely literal.

Etymology

Millstone comes from mill and stone, and it was first the name of a very heavy stone used for grinding grain. People imagined such a stone tied around the neck, so millstone now means a serious, hard-to-carry burden.