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groveling

groveling

1 7.4
Acting too eager to please and obey someone, often seeming weak
  • adjective
  • /ˈɡrɒvəlɪŋ/
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  • I've been reluctant to even seriously consider watching much MM in film, as I have zero patience with all the ballyhoo and worship, but your well-written and insightful article presents MM in a sympathetic, but not groveling manner.

And then the narcissist will often fall into a place of shame, of pathetic groveling apologies of ridiculous justifications.

Examples

  • After making a mistake, he decided to give her a groveling apology, hoping she would forgive him.

  • Some people seem to believe he is some groveling, sad person who will take anything.

    Blog text (12)
  • But I married her, gross, groveling, mole-eyed blockhead that I was.

  • There's no true way of knowing, you see, and in order to find out, I'd have to humiliate myself in one of those endless groveling scenes I detest.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Grace recalled her ex-roommate's prominent front teeth, the peculiar blush of her skin, her unnerving manner that was both groveling and insolent—oh, unmistakable.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • The employee's groveling attitude during the meeting made it clear that he would do anything to please his boss.

  • Despite his past mistakes, he refused to adopt a groveling demeanor in front of his critics.

Synonyms

submissive
vsgroveling
38 5.1

Willing to obey others and not argue

is more excessive and eager to please rather than simply obedient
subservient
vsgroveling
14 7.6

Too willing to obey and please people with power

is more focused on eager pleading for favor than obedient service
obsequious
vsgroveling
  • Formal
7 9.3

Trying too hard to please someone in a way that seems false

is more abjectly submissive rather than mainly flattering or eager
wormy
vsgroveling
  • Offensive
1 8.7

Being weak and afraid to stand up for yourself

is more intensely eager to please rather than just contemptibly weak
cringing
vsgroveling
  • Archaic
1 6.7

Being too afraid and eager to please others

is driven more by eager desire to please rather than fearful humility
wormlike
vsgroveling
  • Offensive
8.4

Too willing to obey others and not speak up

is more active in begging for approval rather than merely timid
yielding
vsgroveling
4.8

Willing to agree easily and give up their own view

is more extreme and eager to please than mere willingness to give in
obeisant
vsgroveling
  • Literature
9.1

Very respectful and ready to obey someone in a formal way

is more excessive and abject in pleasing rather than polite deference

Antonyms

984 2.3

Not controlled by others

42 4.2

Showing confidence when saying what you want or think

How Submissive

groveling
1 7.4
servile
3 7.4
submissive
38 5.1
obedient
45 1.0
respectful
150 1.1

Surface Forms

groveling positive
grovelling positive

Morphology

groveling = grovel (semi-transparent) = grovel + ing

The addition of '-ing' to 'grovel' forms an adjective, but the specific meaning of being overly submissive is not directly derivable.

Etymology

Groveling comes from the old idea of grovel, meaning 'to crawl' or 'lie low' on the ground to show respect or fear, like someone trying to please a powerful person. So, to be groveling today is to act too humble or very eager to please.