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to give grief

to give grief

6.9
To cause someone trouble or make them upset
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
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  • My boss tends to give grief to anyone who makes a small mistake.

Examples

  • If you give grief to your siblings all the time, they'll start avoiding you.

  • Why do you always give grief to your friend for being late?

  • Don't give grief to your sister!

  • My boss always gives grief about my reports.

  • If you give grief to your siblings all the time, they'll start avoiding you.

  • My boss tends to give grief to anyone who makes a small mistake.

  • Why do you always give grief to your friend for being late?

Synonyms

to give someone a hard time
vsto give grief
  • Informal
90 3.9

Make someone feel bad by criticizing or teasing them

is broader, covering annoyance, distress, or causing trouble by criticism
to give someone hell
vsto give grief
  • Informal
37 8.1

To scold someone very strongly for something they did

is less about strong anger and more about causing annoyance or trouble
to give hell
vsto give grief
  • Informal
1 8.1

To scold or punish someone angrily for something they did wrong

focuses on harsh anger whereas key covers any annoyance or trouble
to give someone the shits
vsto give grief
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To make someone very annoyed or angry

is broader, including causing distress or ongoing trouble not only irritation
to disgruntle
vsto give grief
1 8.0

To make someone feel unhappy or annoyed

is more active, causing trouble or complaint rather than just a bad mood
to aggrieve
vsto give grief
  • Literature
1 8.9

To cause someone pain or deep sadness

is milder and informal, not mainly about deep sorrow or formal grievance

Antonyms

753 1.4

Give money or other help so a person can live and study

319 1.0

Things people say or do to make someone feel less worried

How Annoying

to torment
  • NSFW
107 7.2
to harass
302 4.0
to give grief
  • Informal
6.9
to irritate
78 2.9
to annoy
246 1.0
to bother
1.0

Surface Forms

give grief infinitive
gave grief past
given grief past participle
giving grief present participle
gives grief third person singular

Morphology

give + grief

Knowing 'give' (to cause or provide) and 'grief' (sorrow/trouble) would allow a B1 learner to infer a literal meaning like 'cause someone sorrow or problems', so there is a clear compositional link. However the specific gaming sense — deliberate harassment/sabotage ('griefing') — is specialized slang/jargon and not fully predictable from the constituents, so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

The phrase give grief comes from the simple image of handing someone pain or trouble: to give someone grief is like giving them worry or sorrow. So it means 'to cause someone annoyance, distress, or trouble'.