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getting even

getting even

1 7.4
To try to hurt someone because they hurt you
  • idiom
  • Informal
: venganza
  • After the betrayal, his actions were all about getting even with those who had wronged him.
  • way of getting even

The problem with getting people to be accountable generally is that the the motivation behind that is revenge rather than justice and getting even.

Examples

Synonyms

return
vsgetting even
345 1.9

An action given in exchange or as a reply

is narrower, focusing specifically on seeking harm for a wrong
vengeance
vsgetting even
164 6.8

Punishing someone in return for a wrong done to you

is focused on matching a wrong rather than acting from moral justice
retaliation
vsgetting even
112 5.2

Harming someone because they hurt you

is more about personal settling of a wrong rather than a general harm response
payback
vsgetting even
  • Offensive
91 5.5

Harming someone to punish them for something they did

is about seeking to reciprocate a wrong, focused on equal harm
reprisal
vsgetting even
  • Formal
34 8.3

An action that hurts someone in return for an attack

is concerned with personal reciprocation rather than formal hostile measures
tit for tat
vsgetting even
  • Informal
18 5.8

An action done to hurt someone because they hurt you

is about seeking equal harm rather than simply matching actions
requital
vsgetting even
  • Formal
1 9.5

Giving back a favor or returning harm in the same way

limits this idea to seeking harm as repayment for a wrong
retorsion
vsgetting even
  • Formal
9.9

An action taken to hurt or punish someone after an unfriendly act

is more personal and focused on settling individual wrongs

Antonyms

321 2.2

An act of letting go of anger toward someone after they hurt you

112 5.3

A return to friendly relations after a disagreement

How Vengeful

destruction
764 3.0
retaliation
112 5.2
getting even
  • Informal
1 7.4
forgiving
66 3.1

Surface Forms

getting even singular
gettings even plural

Morphology

getting + even

The meaning is partially derivable: 'getting' (obtaining) + 'even' (making equal) yields the idea of ‘making things equal’ or restoring balance, which points toward reciprocation. However, the specific pragmatic sense of taking revenge is a metaphorical/idiomatic extension and not fully predictable from the parts without prior exposure, so it is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Getting even comes from the simple image of making things even or equal again, like balancing a score or an account after someone has been wronged. That's why it means 'taking revenge' or doing something to make things fair again.