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to get under someone's skin

to get under someone's skin

4 7.4
To annoy someone a lot by small things another person does
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : irritar
  • Her constant criticisms really get under my skin.
  • try to get under someone's skin
  • say anything to get under someone's skin
  • seemed to get under someone's skin

Examples

  • I really think Hu has a way of deliberately getting under Bush's skin.

    Blog text (22)
  • i don't know if you've noticed, but I think I'm starting to get under Ruiz's skin as well.

  • Oh, she gets under my skin so bad.

  • And, finally, he kind of got under my skin.

  • It's getting under his skin.

  • It takes a lot to get under my skin.

  • She's getting under my skin.

  • Could all this erratic behaviour be because this guy got under your skin?

  • At the very least, he already seemed to have gotten under Thorne's skin.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Prior to the first presidential debate, strategists were saying that Romney's best tactic was to get under Obama's skin.

    Blog text (10)

Synonyms

to offend
vsto get under someone's skin
524 2.8

Cause a person to feel hurt, upset and angry because of your words or actions

focuses on irritation more than causing emotional hurt or offence
to drive (someone) crazy
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
271 3.9

Make someone very annoyed or upset

is about significant irritation that may be strong but not extreme
to annoy
vsto get under someone's skin
246 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

implies a deeper, more significant level of irritation or upset
to get to
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
215 6.3

Annoy or upset someone gradually

is more intense or serious rather than only small annoyances
to drive someone crazy
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
158 3.2

Make someone very annoyed or upset

implies strong irritation but can be less extreme than this intensity
to provoke
vsto get under someone's skin
144 3.6

Annoy someone again and again to make them react

is focused on deep personal irritation rather than just provoking a response
to frustrate
vsto get under someone's skin
137 3.0

Make someone feel annoyed because they cannot do something

is about irritating someone persistently rather than blocking their goals
to give someone a hard time
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
90 3.9

Make someone feel bad by criticizing or teasing them

is about causing personal annoyance rather than active, sustained difficulty
to irritate
vsto get under someone's skin
78 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

suggests a stronger, more significant personal irritation
to rile
vsto get under someone's skin
63 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

is broader and often means more serious or lasting annoyance
to infuriate
vsto get under someone's skin
46 5.0

Make someone very angry

is about serious persistent irritation, usually less extreme than rage
to antagonize
vsto get under someone's skin
  • US
31 7.6

To make someone angry or unfriendly

is focused on personal irritation rather than provoking ongoing hostility
to get at
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
25 7.1

To annoy someone with small repeated actions

implies a stronger, more significant irritation that affects feelings deeply
to get under one's skin
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
25 7.2

To annoy someone again and again so they feel bothered

is the same in meaning but differs as an alternative phrasing
to irk
vsto get under someone's skin
25 6.3

Make someone feel annoyed

conveys more serious annoyance reaching significant irritation
to ruffle some feathers
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
9 7.2

Upset people by challenging usual views

is more personal irritation rather than broad upset about change or challenge
to get a rise out of
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
8 6.8

Make someone angry or annoyed on purpose by teasing them

is about causing lasting annoyance rather than seeking a quick reaction
to miff
vsto get under someone's skin
8 8.0

To make someone feel slightly annoyed

is more intense and significant than this mild social irritation
to get on someone's nerves
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
7 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

focuses on strong annoyance rather than just ongoing mild bother
to make one's blood boil
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
6 7.0

To cause someone to feel very angry

describes severe irritation but not necessarily full furious anger
to stick in one's craw
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
3 9.9

To feel angry or bitter about something unfair that you cannot forget

is about direct personal irritation rather than stubborn resentment about facts
to peeve
vsto get under someone's skin
2 6.8

To make someone feel annoyed

is generally stronger and more personally troubling than a small gripe
to nettle
vsto get under someone's skin
2 6.8

To annoy or upset someone in a way that feels sharp

is steadier, causing ongoing irritation rather than a sharp sting
to push someone's buttons
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
1 7.1

To do or say something on purpose to annoy someone

can be unintentional or less deliberately targeted than this deliberate action
to get one's dander up
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
1 9.1

To make someone angry

focuses on persistent annoyance rather than momentary anger
to raise hackles
vsto get under someone's skin
1 7.9

To make someone angry or upset

is about steady annoyance rather than causing overt hostility
to give someone the shits
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To make someone very annoyed or angry

is similar but can be less crude or intensely expressed
to get someone's back up
vsto get under someone's skin
  • UK
1 7.9

To annoy someone or make them feel defensive

is about steady irritation rather than mainly defensive anger
to do someone's head in
vsto get under someone's skin
  • UK
1 9.8

To make someone feel very annoyed or upset

centres on persistent annoyance rather than deep mental distress
to get on someone's wick
vsto get under someone's skin
  • UK
9.9

To annoy someone by doing the same small things again and again

is similar but carries a stronger, more lasting irritation
to put up someone's back
vsto get under someone's skin
  • UK
8.9

To annoy someone so they become defensive

is about persistent personal irritation rather than brief defensive provocation
to get someone's goat
vsto get under someone's skin
  • Informal
8.4

To annoy someone or make them angry

is similar but usually implies more lasting and personal irritation

Antonyms

216 1.0

To make someone happy or satisfied

48 1.0

To enjoy something very much

How Annoying

to drive someone crazy
  • Informal
158 3.2
to get under someone's skin
  • Informal
4 7.4
to irritate
78 2.9
to annoy
246 1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

get + under + someone's + skin

The sense 'to irritate or annoy someone' is partially inferable from the parts: 'get' (to affect), 'under' (beneath/into) and 'skin' (person's surface) together evoke a metaphor of penetrating someone emotionally. However, the precise idiomatic meaning of persistent emotional irritation is a metaphorical extension not fully predictable from the constituents and can vary across languages, so learners may need prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom get under someone's skin may come from imagining a small thing or insect that gets under the skin and keeps bothering you. That's why it now means 'to annoy' or 'bother' someone deeply.