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forbearing

forbearing

1 7.2
Being calm and patient when other people make them angry
  • adjective
  • /fɔrˈbɛərɪŋ/
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  • He was quiet, polite, approachable, intelligent, and forbearing.

Examples

  • The teacher was forbearing during the heated discussion, allowing each student to express their view.

  • Ah, thanks, Doc, for being so forbearing and all.

  • This made Mr. Lincoln humble, tender, forbearing, sympathetic to suffering, kind, sensitive, tolerant; broadening, deepening, and widening his whole nature; making him the noblest and loveliest character since Jesus Christ...

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  • Despite the difficulties, she remained forbearing and understanding with her frustrated coworkers.

  • His forbearing nature was evident when he chose to listen patiently to the complaints without showing anger.

Synonyms

patient
vsforbearing
343 1.9

Able to stay calm and not get annoyed when waiting

is specifically about restraining anger and resentment under adversity
longanimous
vsforbearing
  • Formal
9.9

Patient and calm when people treat you badly, not seeking revenge

is more about holding back anger than avoiding active retaliation
restrained
vsforbearing
5.3

Calm and controlled, not strong or showy

focuses on calm self-control under hardship rather than general moderation

Antonyms

97 2.8

Quickly annoyed when having to wait

32 3.7

Quick to become annoyed or angry

How Patient

forbearing
1 7.2
tolerant
72 3.2
irritable
32 3.7

Surface Forms

forbearing positive

Morphology

forbearing = forbear (transparent) = forbear + ing

The adjective is a regular participial/adjectival formation from the verb 'forbear' with the predictable meaning 'showing forbearance'.

Etymology

The word forbearing comes from the parts for- and bear, and bear means 'to carry' or 'endure'. Think of someone carrying a heavy load without complaint; that image helps you remember that forbearing means being patient and not showing anger.