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to disarm

to disarm

15 3.9
To calm someone by being kind or friendly
  • verb
  • /dɪsˈɑrm/
translation icon : desarmar
  • The politician tried to disarm his critics by offering a genuine apology.
  • disarm critics

So being those three things, maybe that disarms people and they go, Oh, yeah, OK.

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Examples

  • You will disarm them.

  • It's only when you're honest and you can disarm people with your level of like candor and self reflection.

  • "You have to disarm people immediately."

  • We need to disarm him.

  • Disarm her if you can.

  • I just think he has a freakish ability to disarm, to make people feel seen.

  • And she knows that, you know, she knows that everyone is kind of feeling that, you know, and she just disarms it, like, right away.

  • You can really disarm someone's desire to avoid their mistakes.

  • His smiles always disarmed her, and she suspected that he knew it quite well.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • There was actually something appealing in this, something naive and childlike that disarmed criticism.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

to appease
vsto disarm
48 5.8

To calm someone by giving in to their demands

uses charm and kindness to gain goodwill instead of conceding
to defuse
vsto disarm
29 4.5

Make a tense or dangerous situation calmer

aims to win a person's goodwill through charm rather than calming situations
to placate
vsto disarm
28 7.0

To make someone less angry by saying or doing something kind

uses charm or kindness to win the person's goodwill instead
to pacify
vsto disarm
11 5.2

To calm someone who is angry or upset

focuses on winning goodwill through charm rather than just calming them

Antonyms

114 1.0

To make someone very upset or annoyed

How Disarming

to win over
54 3.3
to disarm
15 3.9
to placate
28 7.0
to mollify
8 7.2
to soothe
63 3.4
to calm
962 1.0

Surface Forms

disarm infinitive
disarmed past
disarmed past participle
disarming present participle
disarms third person singular

Morphology

disarm = arm (semi-transparent) = dis + arm

This sense is a metaphorical extension from 'remove weapons' to 'remove hostility' or 'win over', so the relation is understandable but not strictly literal.

Etymology

Disarm is also used in a non-literal way and comes from the same parts dis- 'not' and arma 'weapons', so to disarm someone by charm is like taking away their 'weapons' of anger. That's why to disarm a person can mean to make them less hostile or to win their goodwill.