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ambivalent

ambivalent

33 7.1
Feeling both good and bad about something and not sure what to do
  • adjective
  • /æmˈbɪvələnt/
translation icon : ambivalente
  • I've always said I feel ambivalent about Donald Trump.
  • ambivalent feelings
  • remain ambivalent
  • an ambivalent attitude

I've always said I feel ambivalent about Donald Trump.

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Examples

  • My predecessor felt you had an ambivalent relationship with him.

  • Even many lesbian and gay people, myself included, feel ambivalent about gay marriage.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Are you ambivalent about his death?

  • You write about people like me - ambivalent characters who believe in nothing, least of all themselves.

  • Local authorities, especially elected members, are often ambivalent about community leaders.

    Academic text (2008)
  • Yeah, I'm feeling a little ambivalent about that right now.

  • Our relations with him up until now have been ambivalent.

  • In the West, we have long had an ambivalent relationship with Greek antiquity.

  • Despite all those rational neurons, many people feel ambivalent about these breakups or even hurt.

  • She felt ambivalent about accepting the job offer, torn between the high salary and her desire for a better work-life balance.

Synonyms

conflicted
vsambivalent
35 4.4

Not sure because you have two opposite feelings

is about mixed feelings plus inability to choose between opposing actions
torn
vsambivalent
31 4.2

Feeling pulled between two choices or loyalties

is similar but often less intense and emphasises choice uncertainty
divided over
vsambivalent
5 5.4

People have different opinions about something

focuses more on mixed emotions and inability to choose between options
of two minds
vsambivalent
  • Informal
4 6.7

Feeling unsure about which choice to make

is more about having mixed feelings rather than only being undecided

Antonyms

840 1.0

Feeling sure and having no doubt

30 3.7

Able to choose quickly and firmly

3.2

Solved or explained so it is no longer a problem

How Conflicted

torn
31 4.2
ambivalent
33 7.1
undecided
75 2.9
hesitant
73 3.2
unsure
89 1.5

Surface Forms

ambivalent positive

Morphology

ambivalent = valent (semi-transparent) = ambi + valent

The prefix 'ambi-' meaning 'both' combines with the combining form 'valent' to give the sense 'having mixed or both feelings', but 'valent' is a less familiar combining form for average learners.

Etymology

Ambivalent comes from the parts ambi- meaning 'both', as in ambidextrous, and valent meaning 'strong', so to be ambivalent is to have 'two strong' or mixed feelings at the same time and be unsure what to choose.