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torn

torn

31 4.2
Feeling pulled between two choices or loyalties
  • adjective
  • /tɔrn/
translation icon : dividido
  • Yeah, I would say yeah, but I'm kind of torn because intelligence is important.
  • feel torn

Yeah, I was really torn on the Topper for this shade.

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Examples

  • She was torn between accepting a high-paying job and pursuing her passion for art.

  • - I am torn between my duty and you.

  • I was so torn when you called.

  • NICK: I remember feeling torn.

  • I'm also torn between two of them.

  • OK I'm a little torn on this one.

  • I was torn between my wish to be sympathetic and my growing unease.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • And Thandi admits they feel completely torn and says, "It's give up your home or give up your child."

    Blog text (4)
  • At this point in the text, Julien is torn, perhaps unconsciously, between what he has been and what he wants to become.

    Academic text (2003)
  • Truly torn, Drizzt decided to rush back in and fight beside the panther to the bitter end.

    Fiction book (1992)

Synonyms

conflicted
vstorn
35 4.4

Not sure because you have two opposite feelings

is more about intense emotional conflict between loyalties or desires
ambivalent
vstorn
33 7.1

Feeling both good and bad about something and not sure what to do

involves stronger emotional pull or loyalty conflicts instead of mere uncertainty
divided over
vstorn
5 5.4

People have different opinions about something

focuses on personal emotional struggle between loyalties, not group disagreement
of two minds
vstorn
  • Informal
4 6.7

Feeling unsure about which choice to make

is centered on deep emotional conflict rather than simple indecision

Antonyms

4.2

Firm in deciding to do something and not willing to change your mind

Compounds

1 7.0

People deeply hurt emotionally because of war

How Conflicted

distraught
86 7.2
torn
31 4.2
conflicted
35 4.4
undecided
75 2.9

Surface Forms

torn positive

Etymology

Torn also uses the same idea as tear ('to rip') as a picture: when someone is torn, they feel pulled apart by opposite choices or feelings. So to be torn is to have strong, opposing feelings about what to do.