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to agonize

to agonize

6 6.8
To make someone feel very strong pain or deep worry
  • verb
  • /ˈæɡəˌnaɪz/
  • US
translation icon : angustiar
  • "But he has a good heart, and when those things happen, he agonizes over that.

Examples

  • You are agonizing over wanting them back.

  • Do not agonize over it for even one hundred pages.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • We do not need to agonize about what that something is.

    Academic text (2001)
  • There was nothing to agonize over.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • So boards of directors have long agonized over how much to borrow.

  • Monica agonized over the slow steps required to create homespun socks.

    Academic text (2002)
  • And I remember actually agonizing over that decision and talking to Sheryl Sandberg.

  • As witnesses to his prolonged physical and psychological deterioration, Siphiwo's family agonized over his failing health.

    Academic text (2005)
  • So often, too often, the tough times are recorded, analyzed, emphasized, and agonized over—far too long.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Grief-stricken, Halee agonized over whether she should tell the police about her suspicions.

Synonyms

to torment
vsto agonize
  • NSFW
107 7.2

To cause someone to feel great physical or mental pain

causes intense emotional distress rather than prolonged physical torture
to grieve
vsto agonize
95 4.1

To make someone feel very sad

causes intense mental suffering rather than mainly sadness from loss
to traumatize
vsto agonize
87 6.9

To cause someone to feel very shocked and upset

causes intense emotional suffering generally rather than event triggered harm
to pain
vsto agonize
45 4.9

To make someone feel sad or upset

causes intense emotional suffering rather than general sadness or upset
to sting
vsto agonize
26 3.3

To feel sharp emotional pain after someone says something hurtful

causes prolonged intense distress rather than brief sharp emotional hurt
to excruciate
vsto agonize
8 9.9

To cause someone very great physical or mental pain

causes very intense mental and emotional suffering but less physical torture
to anguish
vsto agonize
4 7.3

To cause someone to feel very strong pain or worry

causes very strong emotional distress but not always inner bodily harm
to aggrieve
vsto agonize
  • Literature
1 8.9

To cause someone pain or deep sadness

causes intense personal suffering rather than highlighting unfairness or oppression

Antonyms

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

63 3.4

To make someone feel calmer or reduce their pain

How Distressing

to torment
  • NSFW
107 7.2
to agonize
  • US
6 6.8
to distress
32 4.1
to upset
362 1.0
to trouble
174 1.8

Surface Forms

agonize infinitive
agonized past
agonized past participle
agonizing present participle
agonizes third person singular

Morphology

agonize = agony (transparent) = agony + ize

The causative/distressing sense is a regular extension of 'agony' with '-ize', which commonly yields both intransitive and transitive verbs.

Etymology

Agonize comes from the same Greek root agon ('struggle') and the English noun agony ('great pain'), which gives the idea of intense suffering. That's why to agonize someone is to cause them deep pain or distress.