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9.9
To formally promise that two people will marry
  • verb
  • /əˈfiːəns/
  • Archaic
translation icon : prometerse
  • The couple was affianced during a romantic dinner, surrounded by candlelight and soft music.

Examples

  • "Deacon had been affianced to Marie of Port Mourant before he left to take up his scholarship in San Francisco," said Mr. Mageye.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • My dear, allow me to present the man you are affianced to marry.

  • It was my impression that they were affianced, or perhaps a newly married couple.

  • It has come to my knowledge that you are affianced to another close friend and associate of mine, Maj. General McPherson, and I fear that weighing mighty matters of state but lightly in the realm of love, you feel that he gives too much of his time to his country and too little to you.

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  • First, you have the woman who puts her job first—above relationships, a family, hobbies—she's the unwed, un-affianced career woman, determined to be self-supporting.

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  • She was thrilled when her father affianced her to a charming young man from the village.

  • After a long courtship, they finally decided to affiance, much to the joy of their families.

Synonyms

to engage
vsto affiance
  • Archaic
252 9.9

To arrange someone's marriage

is the standard term used for the same formal promise
to betroth
vsto affiance
  • Archaic
11 9.6

To promise two people will marry each other in the future

focuses more on making a formal promise rather than arranging practical details
to handfast
vsto affiance
  • Archaic
9.9

To promise to marry in a simple old ceremony

uses a general formal promise without special ceremony or ritual

Surface Forms

affiance infinitive
affianced past
affianced past participle
affiancing present participle
affiances third person singular

Etymology

Affiance comes from old words meaning 'trust' or 'pledge', the same idea you see in the word fiancé and in faith. To affiance someone was to 'promise' them in marriage, so the idea of an official, trusted promise explains the modern meaning.