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tender loving care

tender loving care

2 2.5
Gentle, careful help and attention people give to someone or something that needs support
  • noun
  • /ˈtɛndər ˈlʌvɪŋ kɛr/
  • Informal
translation icon : cuidado amoroso
  • All he needs is some tender loving care from the right editor—and of course some fat residuals on any TV series based on the Bronteverse.
  • need some tender loving care
  • lot of tender loving care

Now I don't always put masks on every day but if I feel like my skin needs some tender loving care then I will put some.

Examples

  • They have treated my book with tender loving care and great respect for the story and its characters, which include you, my readers.

    Blog text (31)
  • I wanted to teach them as much as my mother would have taught them, be as patient as she would have been, and give them as much tender loving care as she would have.

    Blog text (19)
  • Well, they need a lot of tender loving care, honey.

  • Yeah, I think what we all need is a little tender loving care.

  • All she needs is tender loving care.

  • My girl has since recovered, but my little guy currently needs some tender loving care.

    Blog text (1)
  • A little stitch, a little tuck, some tender loving care.

    Blog text (19)
  • We're a very fragile group looking for tender, loving care, which you may not have in your repertoire.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Just needs a little tender loving care that nobody's bothering to give, don't you think?

  • The elderly man receives tender loving care from the nurse at the nursing home.

Synonyms

care
vstender loving care
1.0

Looking after something to keep it in good condition

focuses more on gentleness and comfort rather than general maintenance or treatment
TLC
vstender loving care
  • Informal
21 3.2

Gentle care and attention given to a person or thing

emphasizes gentle, thoughtful support aimed at comfort rather than general repair
caretaking
vstender loving care
1 3.7

Looking after someone or something because it is your duty

centers on gentle, thoughtful support rather than duty or formal responsibility

Antonyms

100 3.5

Not caring for someone or something that needs care

71 4.6

Lack of interest or concern about something

How Caring

tender loving care
  • Informal
2 2.5
care
1.0
neglect
100 3.5

Surface Forms

Morphology

tender + loving + care

The overall meaning ('gentle, thoughtful, attentive care') is directly and transparently built from the constituents 'tender' (gentle), 'loving' (affectionate), and 'care' (providing treatment/support). This adjectival stacking simply specifies the quality of 'care' and follows straightforward compositional patterns that a B1 learner who knows the words would readily infer.

Etymology

Tender loving care paints a clear picture of someone gently looking after something fragile, like a person or an old house. Because tender, loving, and care all show soft, kind attention, the phrase is used today to mean 'gentle, thoughtful care'.