to suck it up
- phrasal verb
- /sʌk ɪt ʌp/
- Informal
- We're just gonna have to suck it up for a couple months.
It's not gratifying, so you have to suck it up and get through that.
- It's not gratifying, so you have to suck it up and get through that.
- So it is my job to suck it up and teach it to you guys.
- You're just told suck it up or, you know, get over it.
- I think that that whole culture will suck it up, be a man, go through it.
- And you have to just, yeah, suck it up and keep going.
- And now how fair is it for him to expect her to just suck it up and be happy?
- So that's my first thing is suck it up, dude.
- They're just trying to ignore it and trying to suck it up.
- But my initial thought is kind of like, come on, friends, suck it up.
Examples
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So, Mei wanted to spend Christmas in Hawaii this year, but I told her, we just gotta suck it up and come here because I knew you guys would appreciate it.
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Sometimes you gotta just suck it up, son.
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So it is my job to suck it up and teach it to you guys.
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And now how fair is it for him to expect her to just suck it up and be happy?
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We're short, but you gotta suck it up and keep moving forward, okay?
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Come on, man, suck it up.
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Sometimes, anxiety or not, you just have to suck it up and make the call.
Academic text (2009) -
As service providers, sometimes we think we have to suck it up and be professional, and we can't be.
Academic text (2006) -
"When these things happen, you've just got to suck it up and move on," Hamlin said.
Blog text (1) -
Sometimes you just have to suck it up and finish the project, even if it feels overwhelming.
Synonyms
To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change
To deal with something difficult for a long time without giving up
To accept something unpleasant without complaining
To accept and deal with a difficult situation directly and bravely
To tell someone to accept bad news or defeat without complaining
Accept failure or criticism bravely without complaining
To accept an unpleasant situation without complaining
To stay strong and positive when facing hard times
Accept something unpleasant without complaining
To accept unpleasant results and sometimes punishment for something you did
To accept and deal with an unpleasant situation without complaining
Antonyms
How Tough
- Informal
- Australian
Surface Forms
Morphology
suck + it + up
The phrase uses a metaphorical extension of 'suck' (to draw in/absorb) plus 'up' so the idea of "absorbing" an unpleasant thing maps onto enduring it, but this mapping is not fully literal or predictable from the separate words 'suck', 'it' and 'up'. A B1 learner who knows the constituents might guess something like accepting or taking something, but the precise pragmatic sense 'endure without complaining' usually requires exposure, so the expression is only partially transparent.
Etymology
Suck it up may come from the image of someone taking a bitter drink or medicine and sucking it up quickly without complaining. That's why today it means 'to endure a difficult or unpleasant situation without complaining'.