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to suck it up

to suck it up

81 8.8
Accept a difficult situation and continue without complaining
  • phrasal verb
  • /sʌk ɪt ʌp/
  • Informal
translation icon : aguantarse
  • We're just gonna have to suck it up for a couple months.

It's not gratifying, so you have to suck it up and get through that.

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Examples

  • So, Mei wanted to spend Christmas in Hawaii this year, but I told her, we just gotta suck it up and come here because I knew you guys would appreciate it.

  • Sometimes you gotta just suck it up, son.

  • So it is my job to suck it up and teach it to you guys.

  • And now how fair is it for him to expect her to just suck it up and be happy?

  • We're short, but you gotta suck it up and keep moving forward, okay?

  • Come on, man, suck it up.

  • Sometimes, anxiety or not, you just have to suck it up and make the call.

    Academic text (2009)
  • As service providers, sometimes we think we have to suck it up and be professional, and we can't be.

    Academic text (2006)
  • "When these things happen, you've just got to suck it up and move on," Hamlin said.

    Blog text (1)
  • Sometimes you just have to suck it up and finish the project, even if it feels overwhelming.

Synonyms

to live with
vsto suck it up
563 3.9

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is used more for choosing not to complain now rather than helpless acceptance
to endure
vsto suck it up
304 3.5

To deal with something difficult for a long time without giving up

emphasizes short term coping without complaint rather than long duration endurance
to put up with
vsto suck it up
288 4.3

To accept something unpleasant without complaining

is more immediate endurance for a difficult moment rather than long tolerance
to face up
vsto suck it up
  • Informal
38 4.1

To accept and deal with a difficult situation directly and bravely

is more about quietly bearing the situation rather than confronting it head on
to suck it
vsto suck it up
  • Offensive
26 9.9

To tell someone to accept bad news or defeat without complaining

is the same acceptance idea but phrased less directly and vulgarly
to take it on the chin
vsto suck it up
  • Informal
7 8.2

Accept failure or criticism bravely without complaining

shares not complaining but is less about bravery and more about enduring
to grin and bear it
vsto suck it up
  • Informal
5 6.8

To accept an unpleasant situation without complaining

focuses more on quiet endurance rather than just hiding visible upset
to bear up
vsto suck it up
5 4.4

To stay strong and positive when facing hard times

involves enduring without complaint but with less focus on staying positive
to lump it
vsto suck it up
  • UK
3 8.8

Accept something unpleasant without complaining

is similar but used more as a personal response than obligation
to take one's lumps
vsto suck it up
  • Informal
2 8.1

To accept unpleasant results and sometimes punishment for something you did

shares acceptance without complaint but is less tied to personal fault
to suck a lemon
vsto suck it up
  • Informal
9.9

To accept and deal with an unpleasant situation without complaining

is similar but leans more toward firm decision to bear the difficulty

Antonyms

1.0

To say you are unhappy about something and want it changed

How Tough

to suck it up
  • Informal
81 8.8
to do it tough
  • Australian
1 8.5
to bear
876 3.9
to put up with
288 4.3

Surface Forms

suck it up infinitive
sucked it up past participle
sucking it up present participle
sucks it up third person singular

Morphology

suck + it + up

The phrase uses a metaphorical extension of 'suck' (to draw in/absorb) plus 'up' so the idea of "absorbing" an unpleasant thing maps onto enduring it, but this mapping is not fully literal or predictable from the separate words 'suck', 'it' and 'up'. A B1 learner who knows the constituents might guess something like accepting or taking something, but the precise pragmatic sense 'endure without complaining' usually requires exposure, so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Suck it up may come from the image of someone taking a bitter drink or medicine and sucking it up quickly without complaining. That's why today it means 'to endure a difficult or unpleasant situation without complaining'.