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to stick one's oar in

to stick one's oar in

8.6
To get involved in other people's business when they do not ask for help
  • idiom
  • Informal
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  • I wish he would stop sticking his oar in every conversation we have.

Examples

  • She's got enouigh on her plate without you sticking your oar in.

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  • Also, as Orac said, Prince Charles will no doubt stick his oar in.

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  • She always sticks her oar in, even when her opinion isn't needed.

  • It's frustrating when my coworkers stick their oar in on my projects.

Synonyms

to interfere
vsto stick one's oar in
487 3.5

To get involved in a situation and make things not work as they should

is similar but emphasizes mere unwanted involvement rather than disruption
to meddle
vsto stick one's oar in
80 5.7

To get involved in other people's business and annoy them

is similar but emphasizes interference in conversations or small affairs
to intrude on
vsto stick one's oar in
22 4.6

To go into someone's space or life without permission

focuses more on personal affairs rather than physical entry or places
to butt in
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Informal
21 4.4

Interrupt someone who is speaking without being invited

covers the same unwanted involvement but can apply beyond talk
to move in on
vsto stick one's oar in
8 6.3

To start taking control of a business or area without being invited

covers unwanted involvement broadly without implying takeover intent
to horn in
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Informal
5 8.2

To join a conversation or activity without being invited

is the general phrase for unwanted involvement without the meddlesome tone
to poke one's nose into
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Informal
1 7.3

To try to take part in other people's business without being asked

matches the same interference but is more commonly used idiomatically
to stick your nose into
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Informal
1 8.0

To get involved in other people's business when not wanted

is the same idea but more idiomatic and informal in tone
to stick one's nose into
vsto stick one's oar in
  • UK
1 7.9

To get involved in other people's business without being asked

expresses the same unwelcome involvement in a slightly broader way
to intermeddle
vsto stick one's oar in
9.4

Get involved in other people's affairs when not wanted

is the everyday, idiomatic way to describe the same unwanted action
to play Old Gooseberry
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Archaic
9.9

To get involved in other people's arguments or problems

names the same interference but in a neutral, modern wording
to stick its dick in
vsto stick one's oar in
  • Offensive
9.9

To become involved in a messy situation and make it worse

means unwanted involvement but lacks the vulgar and chaotic nuance

Antonyms

to withdraw
466 2.8

To stop taking part in a place or activity

to stay out of it
56 3.8

To avoid getting involved in an argument or fight

How Intrusive

to meddle
80 5.7
to stick one's oar in
  • Informal
8.6
to butt in
  • Informal
21 4.4

Surface Forms

stick one's oar in infinitive
sticking one's oar in present participle
sticks one's oar in third person singular
stuck one's oar in past
stuck one's oar in past participle

Morphology

stick + one's + oar + in

The expression uses a clear literal image—physically sticking an oar into something—which maps onto the concept of intruding or interfering, so a learner who knows 'stick', 'oar' and 'in' could plausibly infer interference. However, the figurative extension and idiomatic usage (including the possessive 'one's') require a cultural/figurative mapping that is not fully predictable, so it is not completely transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Stick one's oar in comes from rowing: imagine someone taking their oar and sticking it in another person's boat or into the water to slow or change what is happening. That image of using the oar to interrupt is why the phrase means 'to interfere' or 'get involved when you are not wanted'.