to play Old Gooseberry
- idiom
- Archaic
- Whenever there was an argument, he would play Old Gooseberry and make things worse.
Examples
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She warned her sister not to play Old Gooseberry in their family's business.
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It is unwise to play Old Gooseberry between friends, as it can lead to resentment.
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Don't play Old Gooseberry in my business!
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She always plays Old Gooseberry with her friends' relationships.
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It's best not to play Old Gooseberry when your friends are having a disagreement.
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He tends to play Old Gooseberry whenever his siblings have conflicts, making the situation tense.
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She would often play Old Gooseberry during family discussions, stirring up more trouble than necessary.
Synonyms
To get involved in other people's business and annoy them
To get involved in other people's business without being asked
To get involved in other people's business when they do not ask for help
Antonyms
- Informal
Stay out of other people's private matters and focus on your own
How Meddlesome
- Archaic
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
The meaning 'to meddle or interfere' cannot be derived from the literal words 'play' (act), 'old' (age/affection) and 'gooseberry' (a fruit). This is a dialectal idiom (related to 'play gooseberry' meaning to act as a third wheel/chaperone) whose sense is metaphorical and conventionalized, so a B1 learner who only knows the constituents would not predict the meaning.
Etymology
Play Old Gooseberry comes from an old idea that a gooseberry was a person who stayed with a couple and spoiled their private talk. So to play Old Gooseberry means to get between people and interfere, or 'to meddle'.