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standoffishness

standoffishness

1 8.8
Being unfriendly and distant with other people
  • noun
  • /ˌstændˈɔfɪʃnəs/
translation icon : distanciamiento
  • Despite her standoffishness, I could tell she was just shy and not truly unfriendly.

What they register is a standoffishness, A coldness, an unapproachability.

Examples

  • "Reba went on about the difficulty of securing a parking place, and the standoffishness of some clerks, and the old refrain she always worked in about wishing she had stayed in Louisiana.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • He liked the standoffishness of the English just as he liked their sense of order and routine.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Nothing direct, just a general standoffishness.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • What other important information had Cheryl's standoffishness caused her to miss?

    Fiction book (2002)
  • What they register is a standoffishness, A coldness, an unapproachability.

  • Despite his standoffishness, we warily settled into the pool alongside him, but mindfully kept whatever distance we could manage.

    Blog text (17)
  • A need for belonging might manifest as standoffishness in some situations where the character fears or anticipates rejection, but in other situations, it may make him fiercely protective of the people he cares about.

    Academic text (2008)
  • The agency's signature Kahlua ads hold few visual signs of the casual familiarity suggested by the effigies' in-house nickname; instead, they seem underpinned by "us/them" standoffishness.

    Academic text (2000)
  • I noticed her standoffishness during the party, as she avoided eye contact and stayed away from the group.

  • His standoffishness made it difficult for me to approach him, as he seemed uninterested in conversation.

Synonyms

reticence
vsstandoffishness
10 7.8

A feeling of not wanting to speak or share thoughts

is distance and unfriendly behavior rather than limited speech alone
reserve
vsstandoffishness
9 5.2

A quiet way of acting that shows little emotion

is more about being distant and unfriendly rather than just restrained
aloofness
vsstandoffishness
4 7.2

A feeling of being distant from other people and not friendly

is a broad distant and unfriendly quality rather than purely emotional distance
remoteness
vsstandoffishness
1 6.3

A distant, not friendly manner that keeps others away

is the trait of being distant and unfriendly rather than mere lack of closeness
offishness
vsstandoffishness
8.9

A way of acting toward other people that is distant and not friendly

is a general distant and unfriendly manner rather than just avoiding mixing
withdrawnness
vsstandoffishness
8.4

A habit of staying quiet and keeping away from other people

is about being distant and unfriendly in general rather than only pulling away
glacial demeanor
vsstandoffishness
8.1

A very cold, unfriendly way of behaving that keeps others away

is distant and reserved but less intensely cold or unapproachable
frigid demeanor
vsstandoffishness
7.8

A way of behaving that is cold and unfriendly

is distant and unfriendly generally rather than specifically harsh coldness
reservedness
vsstandoffishness
7.4

Quiet behaviour that does not show feelings or thoughts openly

is a distance and unfriendliness trait rather than mere quiet restraint
taciturnity
vsstandoffishness
9.3

A tendency to be quiet and avoid talking

is more about being distant and unfriendly, not only about speaking less

Antonyms

16 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

The quality of being friendly and easy to talk to

How Friendly

friendliness
16 1.0
warmth
103 1.0
reserve
9 5.2
standoffishness
1 8.8
hostility
147 4.7

Surface Forms

Morphology

standoffishness = standoffish (transparent) = off + stand + ish + ness

Formed by adding the noun-forming suffix '-ness' to the transparent adjective 'standoffish' (stand + off + -ish), so the meaning is directly the quality of being standoffish.

Etymology

Standoffishness comes from the phrase stand off ('to stand away') plus the endings -ish and -ness. So it literally names the state of 'standing away' from others, which is why it means being distant or unfriendly.