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set in one's ways

set in one's ways

4 7.2
Not willing to change habits or the way they do things
  • idiom
  • Informal
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  • Many older people tend to be set in their ways and resist trying new activities.
  • very set in one's ways
  • old and set in one's ways
  • pretty set in one's ways

Examples

  • I believe that we need a guy like Romney who is not so set in his ways that he can compromise to get things done.

    Blog text (14)
  • He's set in his ways and he can't change.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • But they know, too, that both the James boys are mighty set in their ways.

  • Yet, David seems quite set in his ways, as if he has always acted the way he does.

    Blog text (22)
  • He's too set in his ways to change, so maybe you can try and understand him.

  • My mother was in her 40s when I was born and set in her ways.

    Blog text (25)
  • She is set in her ways, which are sometimes incorrect.

    Blog text (1)
  • Her grandson explains that she was set in her ways and politics wasn't something she thought about.

    Blog text (13)
  • Chief among the reasons Bowden was ousted was that he got too set in his ways and was too stubborn to make the necessary changes for the good of the program.

    Blog text (26)
  • In the novel, the protagonist, Fritz Kobus, 36, a solid citizen of Hunebourg with a well-deserved reputation for bonhomie, has a comfortable income but is very set in his ways.

    Academic text (2000)

Synonyms

stubborn
vsset in one's ways
217 2.9

Not willing to change your mind even when others try to persuade you

is focused on fixed habits and repeated ways rather than single choices
obstinate
vsset in one's ways
16 7.5

Refusing to change your opinion or behavior even when others try to persuade you

is more about sticking to familiar habits rather than arguing stances
inflexible
vsset in one's ways
11 4.7

Not willing to change or accept other ideas

is about personal habits and ways rather than general inability to adapt
hardheaded
vsset in one's ways
6 6.7

Refusing to change your mind even when shown evidence

is a more neutral unwillingness to alter daily habits or routines
obdurate
vsset in one's ways
3 8.8

A person who refuses to change their opinion or behaviour even when others try to persuade them

is less forceful and means unwilling to change habits or routines
unreconstructed
vsset in one's ways
2 9.5

Still holding old beliefs and unwilling to change

is broader, meaning unwilling to change habits or ways generally
stiff-necked
vsset in one's ways
1 8.1

Not willing to change your mind or actions

is less proud, mainly describing habitual unwillingness to alter routines
unregenerate
vsset in one's ways
1 9.9

Refusing to change beliefs or show regret, even when wrong

is milder, meaning simply unwilling to change routines or habits
self-willed
vsset in one's ways
1 7.3

A person who insists on doing what they want and often disobeys others

is passive resistance to change in habits rather than acting on will
thran
vsset in one's ways
  • Archaic
9.9

Not willing to change your mind or what you do

is about fixed daily habits and ways rather than single stubborn acts

Antonyms

155 3.4

Able to change or be changed to fit different situations

80 3.7

Ready to listen to new ideas and accept different views

How Stubborn

inflexible
11 4.7
obstinate
16 7.5
set in one's ways
  • Informal
4 7.2
open-minded
80 3.7
flexible
155 3.4

Surface Forms

Morphology

set + in + one + way

The phrase literally combines 'set' (fixed) + 'in' (within) + 'one's ways' (one's habitual manner), so the overall meaning 'fixed in one's habits and unwilling to change' can be directly inferred from the parts. This compositional pattern is common cross-linguistically and follows normal English noun-phrase + prepositional structure, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words should understand it.

Etymology

Set in one's ways gives the picture of a person who is set—stuck or fixed—in their own ways or habits, like something placed firmly in a groove. So it means 'unwilling to change one's habits'.