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selfish

selfish

458 1.0
Caring only about yourself and not about other people
  • adjective
  • /ˈsɛlfɪʃ/
translation icon : egoísta
  • It's selfish to ignore your friends' needs while pursuing your own goals.
  • selfish behavior
  • a selfish act
  • selfish interests

But when she's consistently selfish, she's not in love.

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Examples

  • Stop being selfish and start asking for help.

  • I think that was very selfish of you.

  • And I have to say there was a selfish part to it.

  • Now, all of us are selfish at times.

  • Honestly, it's a pretty selfish way to be.

  • If I hadn't been so selfish, none of us would be here.

  • Others said that he was a good leader, not greedy or selfish as many leaders are today.

    Academic text (1990)
  • "I just realized sitting here how selfish I've been during this lunch."

    Fiction book (1990)
  • We were exhausted and felt guilty and selfish for deserting our children.

    Academic text (1995)
  • My good intentions seem very selfish now, considering what I've cost him.

    Fiction book (1991)

Synonyms

self-centered
vsselfish
  • US
56 3.9

A person who is only interested in their own needs and not in other people's feelings

is used here with the same disregard rather than different intent
self-serving
vsselfish
  • Offensive
49 6.4

Putting your own needs first without caring about others

is a broader disregard for others' needs and feelings rather than advantage seeking
self-absorbed
vsselfish
  • Offensive
38 6.3

A person who thinks only about their own needs and not about other people

is more about inward lack of awareness rather than deliberate neglect
egotistical
vsselfish
  • Offensive
24 6.6

Seeing yourself as much more important than other people

is less about arrogance and more about ignoring others' needs and feelings
egocentric
vsselfish
11 7.4

Thinking only of oneself and not caring about other people's feelings

is the same idea in this description without extra emotional focus
self-involved
vsselfish
9 7.0

Being only interested in your own needs and feelings

is about general disregard for others' needs and feelings rather than mere personal busyness
egomaniacal
vsselfish
  • Offensive
6 8.6

A person who only cares about themselves and thinks they are more important than other people

is not necessarily pathological focusing on lack of care rather than obsession
solipsistic
vsselfish
3 9.9

Thinking only about yourself and ignoring other people's needs

is a more literal extreme form of not caring about others
egoistic
vsselfish
2 7.4

Caring only about your own needs and wants

is equivalent in meaning here rather than adding new emphasis or intent
self-seeking
vsselfish
1 6.9

A person who cares only about their own gain and ignores other people

is more about not caring for others' needs or feelings rather than seeking gain
egoistical
vsselfish
7.6

Thinking only about yourself and not about other people

has the same meaning in the provided description with no nuance
self-pleasing
vsselfish
7.7

Someone who cares only about their own wants, even if others suffer

is about caring only for personal pleasure rather than others' needs

Antonyms

23 6.7

Wanting to help other people even when it costs you

19 2.0

Willing to put other people's needs before your own

How Selfish

narcissistic
58 7.8
egotistical
  • Offensive
24 6.6
self-seeking
1 6.9
selfish
458 1.0
self-centered
  • US
56 3.9

Surface Forms

selfish positive
selfisher comparative
selfishest superlative

Morphology

selfish = self (transparent) = self + ish

The adjective is a direct derivation from 'self' with the productive adjectival suffix '-ish' meaning 'having the quality of', so the meaning is clear to learners.

Etymology

The word selfish comes from self meaning 'your own person' and the ending -ish meaning 'like' or 'related to'. So a selfish person is someone who acts 'for themselves' first, caring about their own needs rather than other people's.