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self-pity

self-pity

36 5.2
A feeling of being sorry for yourself and thinking only about your problems
  • noun
  • /ˈsɛlfˌpɪti/
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  • For even at his most grief-stricken, my grandfather was not a man given to self-pity or reflection.

And, and, and an extra bit of self pity because aren't we all mutants?

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Examples

  • Michael wallowed in self-pity for a year or so, and then went to visit his old roommate, Kevin.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • You're maudlin and full of self-pity.

  • I stayed in the self pity loop feeling like a victim for years.

  • Children are very good at self-pity, which must mean it's natural and important.

  • You said self pity is an occasional treat but should not be your default mode.

  • I'm having a self-pity party.

  • So she made a decision: There would be no bitterness and no self-pity.

    Academic text (2011)
  • There's no time for feeling self-pity, because there's no room for it in here.

    Academic text (1997)
  • I don't indulge in self-pity.

  • After losing the match, he fell into a state of self-pity, blaming everyone but himself.

Synonyms

pity pot
vsself-pity
  • UK
9.9

A long feeling of being sorry for yourself and thinking only about your problems

is the general idea of excessive self-indulgent sorrow about troubles
pity pie
vsself-pity
  • Informal
9.9

Eating comfort food because you feel sorry for yourself

is the enduring feeling of excessive sorrow rather than a single display

Antonyms

26 2.1

A feeling of being happy and satisfied with your life

Accepting yourself as you are, including your strengths and weaknesses

How Self-Pitying

self-pity
36 5.2
stoicism
5 7.8
resilience
52 4.8

Surface Forms

self-pity singular
self-pities plural

Morphology

self-pity = self + pity (transparent) = self + pity

Clear compound of 'self' + 'pity' meaning feeling pity directed at oneself.

Etymology

Self-pity comes from self and pity, where pity means 'feeling sorry for someone'. So self-pity is when you feel 'sorry' for yourself too much, often in a way that stops you from moving on.