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self-effacing

self-effacing

7 7.4
Not wanting attention and being modest
  • adjective
  • /ˌsɛlf ɪˈfeɪsɪŋ/
translation icon : modesto
  • There was nothing servile or self-effacing about the way he moved or acted.
  • self-effacing tendency

They're flexible, warm, kind, empathic, patient, self effacing, sweet, good people.

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Examples

  • Humbleness was expressed less overtly as the self-effacing features of the counselors' personalities came through in different ways.

    Academic text (2011)
  • My very reserved, correct, self-effacing friend was a media celebrity, suddenly the most famous scientist in Italy.

    Academic text (1994)
  • They're flexible, warm, kind, empathic, patient, self effacing, sweet, good people.

  • But despite all that, he was one of the kindest, wisest, most self-effacing persons I ever knew.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • "Hardy didn't want to admit it, but there was a charming, self-effacing quality to Ron Beaumont.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • He is known for his humility, integrity, self effacing humor, and his wonderful way of connecting with everyone he meets.

  • If we have lost in Justin and Tessa... ...two valued friends, the diplomatic community has lost a true gentleman... ...courteous, self-effacing, large of heart.

  • Despite her accomplishments, she remains self-effacing, always insisting that her team deserves the credit.

  • He has a self-effacing demeanor that makes it hard to believe he is the CEO of such a successful company.

  • Her self-effacing nature is evident in how she downplays her achievements when speaking to others.

Synonyms

humble
vsself-effacing
222 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

is expressed by pulling back and not claiming attention
modest
vsself-effacing
81 2.7

Not thinking you are better than others and not boasting

is a more idiomatic phrase rather than the simple single adjective
unassuming
vsself-effacing
20 5.8

A person or thing that is not proud and not showy

is the internal humility that avoids attention rather than just quiet conduct
self-deprecating
vsself-effacing
18 6.0

Making jokes about your own faults to seem modest

is modest without making oneself the target of jokes or critique
unpretentious
vsself-effacing
9 5.1

Simple and honest in style and not trying to impress people

is focused on not claiming attention rather than just being genuine
unostentatious
vsself-effacing
1 7.8

Simple and modest in style and not trying to attract attention

is about avoiding attention personally rather than only outward restraint
unpretending
vsself-effacing
6.8

Simple and modest in style or behaviour

is inward modesty that avoids attention rather than only plain style
unshowy
vsself-effacing
4.5

Looks modest and simple and does not attract attention

is a personal avoidance of attention rather than merely plain appearance
retiring
vsself-effacing
6.7

A shy, quiet person who does not like attention

is modest by choice and humility rather than by simple shyness

Antonyms

260 4.5

Behaving as if you are more important or better than other people

Acting as if you are better than other people

How Modest

self-effacing
7 7.4
reserved
3.7
modest
81 2.7
confident
715 2.5
showy
8 3.2

Surface Forms

self-effacing positive

Morphology

self-effacing = self-efface (semi-transparent) = self + efface + ing

The term 'self-effacing' combines 'self-efface' and 'ing', but the meaning of being modest is not directly derivable from its components.

Etymology

Self-effacing puts together self ('oneself') and efface ('erase' or 'make less visible'), so you can imagine a person who 'erases' their own presence. That's why a self-effacing person is modest and does not seek attention.