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to rule the roost

to rule the roost

3 6.3
To be in control of a group and make important decisions
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : llevar la voz cantante
  • As the team leader, she definitely rules the roost during meetings, making all the key decisions.
  • still rules the roost

Not like in the old days when objective reason was ruling the roost.

Examples

  • This is the Franklin ranch here, and I rule the roost.

  • No answers to the questions and the DUP appear to be ruling the roost and telling her what to do.

  • If she cannot do this, there will be continued problems regarding who is to "rule the roost."

    Academic text (1990)
  • The difference is that some allow one or the other to more or less completely rule the roost.

    Blog text (15)
  • Do they rule the roost?

    Blog text (15)
  • We know, those days... the parents ruled the roost, didn't they?

  • Mick ruled the roost as far as what they were going to play and the fact that he could write music and Brian couldn't.

  • While five of the six sitcoms put up uninspiring numbers, CBS dramas ruled the roost.

    Blog text (10)
  • Power and authority under the Indian Act are vested in the office, and whoever gets into office gets to rule the roost, insofar as is allowed by Indian Affairs.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Ada, once our most docile chick, has become quite an aggressive little lady, competing with Rosie to rule the roost.

    Blog text (1)

Synonyms

to head
vsto rule the roost
465 2.9

To be in charge of a group or organization

implies informal full control and final say within the group
to call the shots
vsto rule the roost
  • Informal
99 4.2

To be in control and make the important decisions

is the phrase for being the main decision maker in a group
to take the lead
vsto rule the roost
79 3.2

To start guiding a group or activity and make the main decisions

means being the lasting decision maker, not just starting leadership
to dominate
vsto rule the roost
48 3.7

To rise above a place and be clearly visible from around it

focuses on authority by decisions, not only on dominating presence
to rule over
vsto rule the roost
23 4.2

To be in charge of people or a place

is more informal and focuses on being the active decision maker
to take the helm
vsto rule the roost
12 4.4

To lead an organization, group, or project

describes holding control continuously rather than briefly taking charge
to hold sway
vsto rule the roost
9 6.6

To have power over people or situations

denotes actual decision power rather than indirect influence
to call the tune
vsto rule the roost
  • Informal
3 7.0

To have control and make the main decisions

is similar but more informal and idiomatic for leader power
to hold the reins
vsto rule the roost
  • Informal
3 4.9

To be in control of a group or business

focuses on being the decision maker rather than just managing details

Antonyms

1.0

To act according to rules, advice, or beliefs

187 4.1

To accept another person's control, often against your wishes

How Dominant

to dominate
275 3.7
to call the shots
  • Informal
99 4.2
to rule the roost
  • Informal
3 6.3
to lead
1.0
to have a say
46 3.1

Surface Forms

rule the roost infinitive
ruled the roost past participle
ruling the roost present participle
rules the roost third person singular

Morphology

rule + the + roost

The verb 'rule' clearly conveys control and 'roost' (a bird's perch or home) can be metaphorically read as one's domain, so a learner who knows both words could plausibly infer 'be in control'. However, the mapping from a bird's 'roost' to a human sphere of authority is idiomatic and culturally conditioned, so the meaning is not fully predictable without exposure.

Etymology

Rule the roost may come from farm life, where a loud rooster stands on the roost, the place where chickens sleep, and rules the other birds. So the picture of that bossy bird helps explain why the phrase means 'to be in control'.