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to rub shoulders

to rub shoulders

7 4.6
Mix socially with important or famous people
  • phrasal verb
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  • In movies and TV shows, these journalists rub shoulders with those in high places and find themselves in dangerous situations.

I've seen you online not only sort of rubbing shoulders with stars like Shearer.

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Examples

  • You could rub shoulders with movie stars walking along the boulevard.

  • Ahmed's donations have allowed him to rub shoulders with many of the most powerful people in the country.

    Blog text (4)
  • And I think that like, yeah, and you can rub shoulders with artists, but certainly.

  • So I get the opportunity to rub shoulders with all different kinds of people, different cash flows, different net worth.

  • And you rubbed shoulders with nothing but the best people.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • If that's not enough, you can rub shoulders or share a drink with them at many networking events and local conferences.

    Blog text (17)
  • What a meteoric flight: to rub shoulders with the best of the pros at such a tender age!

    Fiction book (1993)
  • In the last year they've rubbed shoulders with every kind of Spaniard.

  • We need to put down our journal pen, abandon the blinking cursor, and rub shoulders with people.

    Academic text (2009)
  • You could rub shoulders with movie stars walking along the boulevard.

Synonyms

to mingle
vsto rub shoulders
64 3.1

Join and talk with other people at a meeting or party

associates to be with important or famous people rather than general participation
to fraternize
vsto rub shoulders
20 7.7

To be friendly and spend time with people you should avoid, for example enemies

associates mainly with important or famous people, not forbidden contacts
to hobnob with
vsto rub shoulders
8 8.0

To spend time talking with important or powerful people

associates with important or famous people, not only elite circles
to rub elbows
vsto rub shoulders
  • Informal
8 5.8

To meet and talk with important people at social events

associates with important or famous people more for status than proximity
to hobnob
vsto rub shoulders
5 7.9

To spend time talking with important or famous people

associates with important or famous people rather than casual acquaintances

Antonyms

256 4.2

To keep someone or something apart from others

Surface Forms

rub shoulders infinitive
rubbed shoulders past participle
rubbing shoulders present participle
rubs shoulders third person singular

Morphology

rub + shoulders

Literally 'rub' + 'shoulders' evokes physical contact and close bodily proximity, which can metaphorically extend to social mingling; however the specific sense 'to associate with important or famous people' is a pragmatic extension, not a direct compositional meaning. Because the connection relies on a figurative mapping from physical closeness to social contact (and while many languages use similar bodily-contact metaphors), the link is predictable only to a degree and may not be fully clear to a B1 learner without prior exposure.

Etymology

The verb rub shoulders comes from the image of people standing so close at a party that their shoulders touch and they seem to rub each other. One popular story says this close picture became a way to say 'to associate or mix socially' with important or famous people.