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pushy

pushy

75 5.0
Being rude and trying too hard to make people do what you want
  • adjective
  • /ˈpʊʃi/
  • Informal
translation icon : insistente
  • The sales associate was overly pushy, making me uncomfortable with his approach.

He wasn't aggressive or pushy, but he knew who he was.

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Examples

  • Patti has always been pushy with her values, trying, with little luck, to play Big Sister.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • - Yeah I guess I'm just naturally pushy.

  • Why are you so pushy?

  • I am not being pushy.

  • If Jason's mother was as pushy as his father, I thought, no wonder the boy wanted out.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • In fact, she had not liked the American one bit, finding her pushy, aggressive, and altogether too loud.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • He's one of those like pushy sports dads.

  • I think if somebody is being obnoxious or too pushy, that is certainly a way to sabotage yourself.

  • Father Leon proved to be pushy and difficult about all the arrangements, just as Antoine had feared.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Supervisors can also be pushy about progress and not see the need and value of plateau phases.

    Academic text (2015)

Synonyms

aggressive
vspushy
248 3.6

Determined and energetic in trying to reach goals

is the same force but with ruder, more personally forceful behaviour
insistent
vspushy
50 4.1

Demanding attention or action again and again in a firm way

is more rude and personally driven rather than merely persistent
bossy
vspushy
  • Informal
46 2.6

Being quick to tell people what to do in a forceful, unpleasant way

is more about rude assertiveness to obtain personal benefits rather than orders
overbearing
vspushy
30 5.8

Being proud and trying to control other people

is equally unpleasant but specifically rude and self-serving in aims
domineering
vspushy
12 7.4

Trying to control other people and not listening to their ideas

is similar but emphasizes rude force aimed at personal gain
peremptory
vspushy
  • Formal
6 9.3

Demanding immediate action in a bossy way and allowing no refusal

is similar in force but is specifically rudely self-serving rather than formal command
high-pressure
vspushy
4 5.5

Using strong pushy ways to make someone buy or agree

is similar but more generally rude and aimed at personal gain
overaggressive
vspushy
1 5.8

Too forceful or pushy in a way that makes other people uncomfortable

is rude and forceful specifically to gain personal advantage
bumptious
vspushy
1 9.9

Too confident and rude in a way that annoys other people

is also arrogant but specifically uses rude force to get personal aims
dominating
vspushy
1 5.6

Trying to control other people in a forceful or unfair way

is focused more on rude pressure to achieve personal aims rather than control
pushful
vspushy
8.4

Being strongly determined to succeed, often in a pushy way

is similarly forceful but more rude and personally driven
sharp-elbowed
vspushy
8.1

Someone who acts in a pushy way to get ahead and promote their own interests

is equally self-advancing but expressed as rude pressure rather than competition
self-assertive
vspushy
7.0

Being confident and forceful when you speak or act, sometimes sounding rude

is more likely to be rude and aimed at getting personal goals

Antonyms

38 5.1

Willing to obey others and not argue

Idioms

1 6.8

To try too hard to make others agree or do something

How Forceful

bullying
  • Offensive
148 2.7
overbearing
30 5.8
aggressive
311 3.7
pushy
  • Informal
75 5.0
insistent
50 4.1

Surface Forms

pushy positive

Morphology

pushy = push (transparent) = push + y

The adjective is directly formed from the verb 'push' with the productive adjective-forming suffix '-y', yielding a meaning 'characterized by pushing' which maps well onto 'overly assertive'.

Etymology

The word pushy comes from the verb push, which means 'to move by force', plus the ending -y that means 'full of'. So a pushy person is like someone who keeps 'pushing' forward and is too forceful or too eager to get what they want.