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push comes to shove

push comes to shove

3 7.2
A situation that becomes serious and needs you to act
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : cuando las cosas se ponen difíciles
  • She knows that when push comes to shove, she can always count on her friends to help her.

And it if push comes to shove, they can back off of some of that to stimulate growth.

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Examples

  • When push comes to shove, they'll just march straight over you.

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  • That thing that asks so much of you just like Stanford, but when push comes to shove, it lights a fire in your heart.

  • And when when push comes to shove, health really is all about energy in and energy out.

  • I mean, just when push comes to shove, I think we're going to pay the interest on our debt, but who knows, could be wrong.

  • But when push comes to shove, they will not help out.

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  • But I, I think that if push came to shove, we'd see pretty much the same thing we see from him on Ukraine.

  • But I mean, I think when push comes to shove, Joel and I agree on what he's just said.

  • One wants to, when push comes to shove, be on the side of the underdog, of people who are marginalized, of people who are oppressed.

  • But when push came to shove, that is, when trust no longer paid, Roman forces looted the treasures of Corinth and leveled the city.

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  • Development theorists and practitioners talk about "private sector-led development," but when push comes to shove and the money is allocated, the temptation is always to fund pressing social service delivery projects or photogenic or politically connected causes.

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Synonyms

when the chips are down
vspush comes to shove
  • Informal
3 7.4

When things become very difficult and you must act

calls for specific decisive action rather than general difficulty
the ox is in the ditch
vspush comes to shove
  • Informal
9.9

An urgent problem that needs quick action

focuses on a critical moment requiring decisive choice rather than only urgency

Antonyms

83 3.9

To delay doing something until someone answers or a situation changes

How Urgent

last resort
69 3.5
push comes to shove
  • Informal
3 7.2
if need be
11 3.9

Surface Forms

Morphology

push + come + to + shove

The components 'push' and 'shove' both denote force and the sequence 'comes to' suggests escalation, so there is a recognizable metaphor of increasing pressure that hints at a critical turning point. However, the precise pragmatic meaning ('when things become critical / decisive action is needed') is not fully derivable from the literal words and is conventionalized, so a B1 learner who simply knows the constituents would likely only partially infer the sense and would benefit from exposure.

Etymology

Push comes to shove creates a simple image: when a small push turns into a harder shove in a crowd or argument, the situation has become serious. That's why the phrase means 'a situation becomes serious and you must act'.