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pillar of strength

pillar of strength

2 4.1
A person who gives strong, steady support to others in hard times
  • noun
  • Informal
translation icon : pilar de fortaleza
  • In moments of doubt, my best friend is truly a pillar of strength who lifts me up.
  • pillar of strength in a community

Examples

  • Weekly counseling sessions have helped me let go of my anorexia, and they have been a constant pillar of strength and support in the last difficult months.

    Blog text (24)
  • Nobody's expecting you to be, you know, the pillar of strength.

  • Well, I am glad that you are the pillar of strength in your family.

  • You are a pillar of strength.

  • You were a pillar of strength.

  • Eddie's really good... ...and he's my pillar of strength.

  • "He's been a pillar of strength. We're with him, and he's with us."

    Blog text (11)
  • But I used all my tricks, and in the years when I was struggling along as one of the first women ministers, Laurence was a pillar of strength.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • I wouldn't put anything past this man, this former heavyweight champion... who's moved on to become a successful businessman... a prodigious builder... a respected leader... and a pillar of strength... in a community that desperately needs positive role models.

  • During hard times, she has always been my pillar of strength, offering support and encouragement.

Synonyms

anchor
vspillar of strength
43 4.0

A person or thing that gives support and makes someone feel confident

focuses more on unwavering comfort and emotional support in hardship
pillar
vspillar of strength
21 4.5

A person who gives strong support to a group or community

is specifically someone who comforts and supports others in hardship
stalwart
vspillar of strength
12 7.6

A loyal and reliable person who supports a group

offers constant comfort and reassurance rather than just loyalty
tower of strength
vspillar of strength
1 5.0

A person who gives strong support and comfort in hard times

is steady comfort and support who never fails in difficult times
solid rock
vspillar of strength
  • Informal
1 3.5

A person or thing you can depend on for strong support

gives personal comfort and steady presence in difficult situations
kelson
vspillar of strength
9.9

A person or thing that gives steady support in hard times

places emphasis on emotional comfort and constant personal aid

Antonyms

482 3.4

A heavy load or something that causes worry and difficulty

95 5.7

A person or thing that causes problems or puts someone at a disadvantage

How Supportive

rock
  • Informal
347 3.5
pillar of strength
  • Informal
2 4.1
comforter
5 3.4
supporter
817 1.0
helper
79 1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

pillar + of + strength

The phrase combines 'pillar' (a support or someone who upholds) with 'strength' (power/resilience), so a B1 learner who knows both constituents can infer it denotes a person providing strong, reliable support. The metaphor of a pillar as support is cross-linguistically common and follows straightforward compositional logic rather than an arbitrary idiom.

Etymology

Pillar of strength may come from the image of a heavy stone pillar that holds up a building with great strength. So, a person called a pillar of strength is someone who quietly and firmly 'supports and comforts' others in hard times.