oil and water
- idiom
- Informal
- It's not bad, but it's it's oil and water man doesn't mix.
- oil and water don't mix
We align on values, but we can also be like oil and water, like our marriage is not without friction.
- We align on values, but we can also be like oil and water, like our marriage is not without friction.
Examples
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You know, I had these horrible nightmares that you two would be like oil and water, hating every minute of being together.
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two things that don’t go together are oil and water.
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The two are like oil and water.
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We were oil and water, not compatible at all.
Fiction book (1995) -
The old mindset and new structures are like oil and water.
Blog text (4) -
We align on values, but we can also be like oil and water, like our marriage is not without friction.
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They should get along like oil and water.
Academic text (2009) -
But i don't think that women and business mix any more than oil and water.
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And one of the ways in which they function as a boundary is because of that well known adage that oil and water don't mix, right.
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They argued constantly, proving they were like oil and water.
Synonyms
So different that people cannot agree
Two people or things that are completely different from each other
Very different from each other in important ways
Impossible to make two people or ideas agree
Antonyms
How Different
Surface Forms
Morphology
The metaphorical meaning is directly derivable from the literal knowledge that oil and water do not mix: combining 'oil' + 'and' + 'water' evokes incompatibility. This physical property is commonly known and used cross-linguistically as a metaphor for people or things that do not get along, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will likely understand the MWE.
Etymology
Oil and water comes from the everyday image that oil sits on top of water and the two do not mix. So when people say oil and water, they mean things or people that are 'completely different' or 'do not get along'.