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oil and water

oil and water

1 4.6
People or things that are completely different and do not get along
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : como el agua y el aceite
  • It's not bad, but it's it's oil and water man doesn't mix.
  • oil and water don't mix

We align on values, but we can also be like oil and water, like our marriage is not without friction.

Examples

  • You know, I had these horrible nightmares that you two would be like oil and water, hating every minute of being together.

  • two things that don’t go together are oil and water.

  • The two are like oil and water.

  • We were oil and water, not compatible at all.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • The old mindset and new structures are like oil and water.

    Blog text (4)
  • We align on values, but we can also be like oil and water, like our marriage is not without friction.

  • They should get along like oil and water.

    Academic text (2009)
  • But i don't think that women and business mix any more than oil and water.

  • And one of the ways in which they function as a boundary is because of that well known adage that oil and water don't mix, right.

  • They argued constantly, proving they were like oil and water.

Synonyms

irreconcilable
vsoil and water
11 7.7

So different that people cannot agree

says they are different without stressing absolute impossibility to agree
chalk and cheese
vsoil and water
  • UK
1 6.3

Two people or things that are completely different from each other

uses a different phrase to express the same idea
as different as dog and cat
vsoil and water
  • Informal
6.9

Very different from each other in important ways

focuses on outright incompatibility and not getting along
unreconcilable
vsoil and water
7.7

Impossible to make two people or ideas agree

means being unlike without implying formal or total impossibility

Antonyms

157 2.7

A likeness between things that makes them seem related

29 4.0

The ability of two things to work together without problems

How Different

worlds apart
  • Informal
9 4.5
oil and water
  • Informal
1 4.6
compatible
112 4.1

Surface Forms

oil and water singular

Morphology

oil + and + water

The metaphorical meaning is directly derivable from the literal knowledge that oil and water do not mix: combining 'oil' + 'and' + 'water' evokes incompatibility. This physical property is commonly known and used cross-linguistically as a metaphor for people or things that do not get along, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will likely understand the MWE.

Etymology

Oil and water comes from the everyday image that oil sits on top of water and the two do not mix. So when people say oil and water, they mean things or people that are 'completely different' or 'do not get along'.