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missing stair

missing stair

9.9
A person or problem everyone knows but ignores, causing repeated trouble
  • noun
  • Offensive
translation icon : persona tóxica (informal, ofensivo)
  • The manager had become a missing stair in the company, as everyone worked around his unreliable behavior.

Examples

  • Everyone knows about the missing stair in the project, but no one talks about it.

  • The team struggled to complete the project due to a missing stair that everyone was aware of but nobody addressed.

  • She realized too late that the overlooked file was the missing stair in her plan.

  • When problems persist because they're not addressed, you may have a missing stair in your midst.

  • The company has a missing stair in its management structure.

  • In every organization, there is often a missing stair that leads to unresolved issues being perpetuated.

  • Despite the ongoing conflicts, the board ignored the missing stair in their discussions about team dynamics.

Synonyms

elephant in the room
vsmissing stair
  • Informal
23 4.5

An obvious problem that people avoid talking about

focuses on a known group member left unaddressed causing ongoing problems
gorilla in the room
vsmissing stair
  • Informal
1 6.6

An obvious problem that everyone knows but avoids talking about

highlights a person or problem within a group left unaddressed causing repeated harm

How Neglected

untouchable
26 7.1
gorilla in the room
  • Informal
1 6.6
missing stair
  • Offensive
9.9
open secret
  • Informal
6 4.0

Surface Forms

missing stair singular

Morphology

missing + stair

The phrase evokes the literal image of an absent step ('missing' + 'stair'), which provides a plausible metaphorical basis for something hazardous or problematic that people expect and work around. However, the social meaning (a known but neglected problematic person/issue) is a conventional metaphorical extension rather than a direct compositional interpretation, so a B1 learner who only knows the words would likely not derive the intended sense without prior exposure.

Etymology

Missing stair comes from a simple house picture: imagine a staircase with one stair missing so people learn to step over it and warn new people. So, calling someone a missing stair means 'a person or problem everyone knows about but avoids or does not fix', which keeps causing trouble.