missing stair
- noun
- Offensive
- The manager had become a missing stair in the company, as everyone worked around his unreliable behavior.
Examples
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Everyone knows about the missing stair in the project, but no one talks about it.
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The team struggled to complete the project due to a missing stair that everyone was aware of but nobody addressed.
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She realized too late that the overlooked file was the missing stair in her plan.
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When problems persist because they're not addressed, you may have a missing stair in your midst.
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The company has a missing stair in its management structure.
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In every organization, there is often a missing stair that leads to unresolved issues being perpetuated.
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Despite the ongoing conflicts, the board ignored the missing stair in their discussions about team dynamics.
Synonyms
An obvious problem that people avoid talking about
An obvious problem that everyone knows but avoids talking about
How Neglected
- Informal
- Offensive
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
missing + stair
The phrase evokes the literal image of an absent step ('missing' + 'stair'), which provides a plausible metaphorical basis for something hazardous or problematic that people expect and work around. However, the social meaning (a known but neglected problematic person/issue) is a conventional metaphorical extension rather than a direct compositional interpretation, so a B1 learner who only knows the words would likely not derive the intended sense without prior exposure.
Etymology
Missing stair comes from a simple house picture: imagine a staircase with one stair missing so people learn to step over it and warn new people. So, calling someone a missing stair means 'a person or problem everyone knows about but avoids or does not fix', which keeps causing trouble.