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ill at ease

ill at ease

7 5.5
Feeling uncomfortable or nervous around other people
  • idiom
: incómodo
  • As a newcomer to the party, she felt ill at ease and unsure of how to start a conversation.
  • feel ill at ease

Examples

  • Now I was the one who felt ill at ease.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • Joe seems ill at ease today, a little off his game.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • I feel kind of ill at ease.

  • It's only natural to feel ill at ease when seasons change.

  • Your continued absence from Paris has put me ill at ease.

  • I'm ill at ease with male company for the moment.

  • Back in the States, I found myself ill at ease, somehow unsettled by where I had been.

    Academic text (2007)
  • While she appeared composed, Ning was actually ill at ease.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • The four troopers ranged around the dining table looked awkward and slightly ill at ease.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • In her presence, he was gloomy and taciturn, and also perpetually restless and ill at ease.

    Fiction book (1998)

Synonyms

uncomfortable
vsill at ease
702 1.7

Causing physical pain or making you feel uneasy in a situation

is specifically about nervousness or awkwardness around people
embarrassed
vsill at ease
490 1.1

Feeling awkward, shy, or ashamed because of something you did

is broader nervousness in social settings not always tied to shameful acts
to feel uncomfortable
vsill at ease
103 1.9

To be physically or emotionally uneasy

leans more toward anxiety about being judged by others
awkward
vsill at ease
102 2.7

Feeling embarrassed or uncomfortable in social situations

is more about internal anxiety and being worried about others' views
uneasy
vsill at ease
92 3.2

You feel worried and not relaxed

is mainly about discomfort and anxiety specifically in social company
self-conscious
vsill at ease
62 4.6

Feeling nervous because you think others are watching or judging you

focuses more broadly on general discomfort and social anxiety
abashed
vsill at ease
3 7.2

Feeling embarrassed and awkward after making a mistake or being corrected

is general social unease and anxiety without needing a revealing event
out of one's element
vsill at ease
1 7.5

Not comfortable or confident in a new situation

describes social discomfort even in familiar company rather than only unfamiliar settings

Antonyms

∞ 1.6

Feeling relaxed and not worried about people or situations

759 2.5

Feeling sure about yourself or what will happen

How Comfortable

relaxed
216 1.0
comfortable
∞ 1.6
uneasy
92 3.2
ill at ease
7 5.5
anxious
230 2.7

Surface Forms

ill at ease positive

Morphology

ill + at + ease

The meaning 'feeling uncomfortable' is directly derivable from combining 'ill' (badly/unwell) with the phrase 'at ease' (comfortable), yielding the sense 'not at ease'. This is a straightforward compositional qualification (ill + at ease → not comfortable) that follows common patterns and is likely understandable to a B1 learner who knows the constituent words.

Etymology

The phrase ill at ease comes from a simple contrast: at ease means 'relaxed' and ill here means 'not'. So it gives the image of someone who cannot relax and looks awkward or nervous, which is why it means 'feeling uncomfortable or anxious' today.