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to grow a set

to grow a set

1 9.9
To become more brave and confident when facing problems
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : tener cojones
  • Mitch needs to grow a set and get a good one; no more of this jacking around, let's go!

Examples

  • She realized that if she wanted to lead the team effectively, she had to grow a set and make tough decisions.

  • I just need to grow a set and do it.

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  • Now you should grow a set and do something for America.

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  • To succeed in your career, you need to grow a set and take some risks.

  • It's time for you to grow a set and stand up for what you believe in.

Synonyms

to grow a pair
vsto grow a set
  • Offensive
8 9.9

To become braver and more confident in difficult situations

is the idiomatic, slightly more vivid expression for the same change
to grow some balls
vsto grow a set
  • Offensive
4 9.9

To become braver and act when you are afraid

is a milder idiom used more widely and less crude
to muscle up
vsto grow a set
  • Informal
8.1

Gather the courage to face a hard task

emphasizes gaining confidence and assertiveness rather than physical strength
to grow some skin
vsto grow a set
  • Informal
9.4

To become less upset by criticism or problems

focuses more on outward assertiveness and courage rather than inner resilience

Antonyms

to cower
41 6.1

To bend down or move back because you are afraid

to shrink back
  • Informal
1 4.7

Move away because you are afraid or disgusted

How Brave

to grow a set
  • Offensive
1 9.9
to hesitate
318 2.5

Surface Forms

grow a set infinitive
grew a set past
grown a set past participle
growing a set present participle
grows a set third person singular

Morphology

grow + a + set

The verb 'grow' (to increase or develop) combined with 'set' (here glossed as a disposition or readiness to act) yields a plausible compositional sense of increasing one’s readiness or courage, so the meaning is partly derivable. However, the noun use 'a set' for courage/assertiveness is colloquial and non-literal for many learners, making the phrase a metaphorical extension rather than fully predictable.

Etymology

Grow a set comes from a rude image of someone growing a set of male body parts that people have long linked with bravery, so to 'become more assertive' means to act braver and firmer.