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to stand up for oneself

to stand up for oneself

39 3.9
To say firmly what you need or think when people treat you unfairly
  • phrasal verb
translation icon : defenderse
  • After being bullied for weeks, she finally decided to stand up for herself and speak out against the harassment.

Examples

  • You've always told me to stand up for myself.

  • Tisean, you have got to learn to stand up for yourself.

  • Are you gonna stand up for yourself?

  • - You gotta stand up for yourself, man.

  • You are the ones who are always telling me to stand up for myself.

  • As for me, I found the ability to stand up for myself and my friends.

  • You taught me how to stand up for myself, because you always stand up for yourself.

  • I'm proud of you for finally standing up for yourself.

  • I want her to be independent, to stand up for herself and her rights, and her beliefs.

    Blog text (22)
  • Maizell is ready to stand up for herself, but first she has to get her feet back on the ground!

    Fiction book (2001)

Synonyms

to stand up for
vsto stand up for oneself
256 2.7

Defend or support someone who is treated unfairly

defends or asserts personal rights and needs when personally challenged
to speak out
vsto stand up for oneself
220 3.4

To say your opinion or feelings openly even when it is difficult

aims to defend personal rights when directly opposed rather than general public speech
to speak up
vsto stand up for oneself
  • Informal
135 3.1

Give your opinion clearly and firmly even when it is difficult

does this specifically to defend rights and needs against opposition
to stand your ground
vsto stand up for oneself
  • Informal
25 5.7

To keep your position when others disagree

actively defends personal rights or needs rather than only holding a position
to assert oneself
vsto stand up for oneself
6 6.0

Speak or act confidently so people notice and respect you

uses confidence to protect personal rights and needs under challenge

Antonyms

187 4.1

To accept another person's control, often against your wishes

How Assertive

to fight back
188 3.3
to stand up for oneself
39 3.9
to voice concern
  • Formal
7 3.9

Surface Forms

standing up for oneself present participle
stands up for oneself third person singular
stood up for oneself past participle

Morphology

stand + up + for + oneself

The meaning is directly compositional: 'stand' (hold/defend a position) combined with 'up' (an emphatic/completive particle), 'for' (in support of) and 'oneself' (reflexive) yields 'defend oneself'. A B1 learner who knows the constituent words can reasonably infer this sense, and similar support/defense constructions exist cross-linguistically, making it immediately comprehensible.

Etymology

The phrasal verb stand up for oneself comes from the image of a person getting to their feet—stand up—to face someone who is being unfair. So, it means 'to defend yourself' or 'say what you need' when someone treats you badly.