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to grab life by the balls

to grab life by the balls

1 9.9
Act boldly and take control of your life
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : coger la vida por los cojones
  • "Grab life by the balls" by Veronica S.

Examples

  • If you want to be successful, you need to grab life by the balls and take some risks.

  • So we got to grab life by the balls and go for it.

  • I love to see young people grab life by the balls and conquer their money.

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  • After facing many setbacks, she decided to grab life by the balls and pursue her dreams.

  • It's time to grab life by the balls and make the most of every opportunity that comes your way.

Synonyms

to take hold of
vsto grab life by the balls
21 3.1

Grab something or someone with your hands

is metaphorical and wider, focusing on bold personal control and accepting risks
to grab the bull by the horns
vsto grab life by the balls
  • Informal
1 6.3

Face a difficult problem directly and bravely

is broader and covers taking control and embracing risk beyond single problems
to grab life by the horns
vsto grab life by the balls
  • Informal
7.4

To be brave and take control of your life

focuses more on embracing risk and wide personal opportunities
to grab life by the throat
vsto grab life by the balls
  • Informal
8.5

To act quickly and boldly to make the most of life

has a wider sense of taking control and embracing risk in personal choices

Antonyms

Avoid doing something because you feel afraid or unsure

2 4.6

To spend time looking at people and things happening around you without taking part

How Boldly

to grab life by the balls
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Surface Forms

Morphology

grab + life + by + the + ball

The literal constituents ('grab' + 'life' + 'balls') create a vivid metaphor of seizing life forcefully, so a learner who knows those words could infer a general idea of taking control. However the specific idiomatic meaning (acting decisively, embracing risks) and the vulgar/cultural metaphorical use of 'balls' as a symbol of courage are not fully predictable for a B1 learner without exposure, making the expression only partially transparent.

Etymology

The idiom grab life by the balls gives a strong, physical picture: one popular story says it comes from people who had to grab an animal's balls to stop it, a risky way to take control. So it means 'to act boldly and take control of your life'.