cry me a river
- idiom
- Informal
- After hearing his endless excuses, I told him to 'cry me a river' and move on.
Examples
-
When he started complaining about losing his wallet again, she just said, 'cry me a river.'
-
No one wanted to hear more complaints, so Mark sarcastically replied, 'cry me a river.'
-
Oh, you lost your phone? Cry me a river!
-
Cry me a river!
-
When she complained about her breakup, I couldn't help but think, 'Oh, cry me a river.'
-
After hearing him whine about his job, I said, 'Cry me a river; plenty of people have it worse.'
-
Instead of feeling sorry for her, I thought, 'Just cry me a river; this is not the end of the world.'
Synonyms
To make fun of someone who complains by saying their problem is not important
Antonyms
How Sincere
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
cry + me + a + river
The words 'cry' and 'river' give a compositional image of excessive tears (so a learner might guess something about lots of crying), but the phrase's sarcastic, dismissive use ('mock sympathy') and its pragmatic force are not predictable from the constituents alone. Because there is a clear lexical cue (cry + river) but the idiomatic ironic function requires exposure, this is best classified as partially transparent.
Etymology
The idiom cry me a river paints a picture of someone crying so much that their cry fills a whole river. So when people say cry me a river, they give 'mock sympathy' — saying the person's complaints are exaggerated or 'not important'.