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courteous

courteous

43 3.7
Polite and respectful when you speak or behave
  • adjective
  • /ˈkɜːrtiəs/
translation icon : cortés
  • It was certainly courteous of her to offer me your lunch.
  • a courteous manner
  • courteous behavior
  • courteous and respectful

I have found the people in New York to be more genuinely courteous than people in Oklahoma.

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Examples

  • So, we're being courteous to our colleagues in New Orleans.

  • I went way out of my way to be very helpful and courteous to that kid.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • And be courteous to them and not get in the way.

  • And it shows up in how we are courteous to one another and saying please and thank you for things.

  • The courteous thing to do would be to come back later.

  • Maintain a civil and courteous tone.

  • Each of these talks was followed by an open discussion, which was always courteous and friendly.

    Academic text (2010)
  • They were courteous and thanked me all the same.

  • Teachers can show students what it means to be encouraging, courteous, and respectful as they teach patience and cooperation.

    Academic text (2002)
  • It was certainly courteous of her to offer me your lunch.

Synonyms

nice
vscourteous
1.0

Being kind and polite to others

is more focused on respectful and considerate social manner
civil
vscourteous
585 3.9

Polite but not friendly or warm

is warmer and more actively thoughtful toward others
kind
vscourteous
534 1.0

Being helpful and caring toward other people

places more weight on respectful manners than on emotional care
polite
vscourteous
329 1.0

Showing good manners and respect to other people

is more actively thoughtful and considerate in behaviour
gracious
vscourteous
166 3.4

Being kind, polite, and generous to other people

is less about warmth and more about formal respect and care
respectful
vscourteous
150 1.1

Being polite and showing admiration for someone

also includes active concern for others beyond mere deference
considerate
vscourteous
68 2.5

Showing care for other people's needs and feelings

adds formal respect and outward regard to that thoughtfulness
cordial
vscourteous
33 4.1

Showing warm, friendly, and sincere feeling

leans more toward formal respect and thoughtful behaviour
gentlemanly
vscourteous
17 4.4

Polite and considerate in a calm, respectful way

is more neutral and broadly respectful, not tied to tradition
genteel
vscourteous
14 7.7

Polite and elegant in a way that tries to impress others

is sincere and genuinely respectful rather than showy
well-mannered
vscourteous
10 2.9

Polite and respectful to other people

is similar but adds clear respect and thought for others
decorous
vscourteous
  • Formal
3 7.9

Polite and showing good manners in formal situations

is less formal and more focused on respect and care
mannerly
vscourteous
1 4.1

Polite and behaving well around other people

is more about showing respect plus caring for others
mannerable
vscourteous
  • Archaic
1 7.3

Being polite and treating people with respect

places more emphasis on being thoughtful and respectful
regardful
vscourteous
1 7.7

Respectful and careful about other people's feelings

is broader, also stressing respectful manners in actions

Antonyms

594 1.0

Not polite or showing little respect for others

21 2.3

Not showing good manners or respect to other people

4 5.5

Not polite to other people and showing little respect

How Polite

gracious
166 3.4
courteous
43 3.7
polite
329 1.0
respectful
150 1.1

Surface Forms

courteous positive
courtesier comparative
courtesiest superlative

Morphology

courteous = courtesy (transparent) = courtesy + ous

Standard adjective formation from the noun 'courtesy' using the productive suffix '-ous' meaning 'having the quality of'.

Etymology

Courteous comes from the word court, the royal place where people met a king or queen and had to be 'polite' in their words and actions. So to be courteous is to act like someone at court — respectful and careful with others.