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bossiness

bossiness

1 4.3
Telling people what to do in a controlling way
  • noun
  • /ˈbɔsɪnəs/
translation icon : autoritarismo
  • In the workplace, his bossiness made it difficult for others to share their ideas freely.

Examples

  • The thing was, I recognized her bossiness for what it was: the instruction booklet that up to then my life had been lacking.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Her bossiness often caused conflicts among her friends, as they felt she was too controlling.

  • Where does it come from, this bossiness, this belligerence?

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Mudear's natural bossiness had been a plus, too.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Can't you do anything about her bossiness?

  • I think that some of her bossiness came from an insecurity that there were better performers, and for her personality, that made her nervous.

    Blog text (1)
  • Case in point... even after having to talk to her about some of the bossiness issues and giving her a standoffish attitude, she continued to try to contact me after.

    Blog text (1)
  • His "imperious nature," basically bossiness and arrogance, prevents him from serving in the war, but he still supports the South in whatever way he can.

    Blog text (20)
  • Michael Furey is a fitting opponent to Gabriel's ineffective bossiness and false sense of superiority.

    Academic text (1991)
  • If, for Coward, our innate talent to dominate is rendered dormant by our capitulation to mannered civility, Shaw understands bossiness as a rare trait, one that needs to be tuned toward public service rather than private lives.

    Academic text (2017)

Synonyms

high-handedness
vsbossiness
  • Formal
1 8.4

Treating people in a rude, bossy way and not listening to them

is about telling people what to do in a personal, controlling way
pushiness
vsbossiness
1 6.1

Trying too hard to make people do something and annoying them

is more about constant orders and control rather than mere insistence
imperiousness
vsbossiness
1 9.3

Trying to control others and acting like you are more important

is similar but emphasizes frequent instruction rather than formal command
domineeringness
vsbossiness
9.2

Being overly controlling and not listening to others

is about constantly telling others what to do rather than broad domination
overbearingness
vsbossiness
8.3

Being too bossy and trying to control other people

focuses on directing others by telling them what to do repeatedly
prescriptiveness
vsbossiness
8.1

A way of making strict rules about how people should do things

focuses on telling people what to do in daily interactions rather than formal rules
directiveness
vsbossiness
7.9

A tendency to tell people what to do and give instructions

is stronger and more controlling, repeatedly ordering rather than guiding
prima donna attitude
vsbossiness
  • Offensive
8.1

A way of acting that is arrogant and demanding

is about constant directing and control rather than seeking special attention

Antonyms

A willingness to accept someone else's authority and follow them

A willingness to work with other people to reach a common goal

How Bossy

domination
102 4.7
bossiness
1 4.3

Surface Forms

bossiness singular
bossinesses plural

Morphology

bossiness = bossy (transparent) = boss + y + ness

Formed by the adjective 'bossy' plus the productive nominal suffix '-ness' to denote the quality; the chain 'boss' → 'bossy' → 'bossiness' is regular and meaning is directly compositional.

Etymology

Bossiness comes from the word boss, which itself comes from the Dutch baas meaning 'master'. So, bossiness is the habit of acting like a 'master' and telling people what to do, which explains its modern meaning.