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pushiness

pushiness

1 6.1
Trying too hard to make people do something and annoying them
  • noun
  • /ˈpʊʃiˌnəs/
translation icon : insistencia
  • Two people without pushiness.

Examples

  • I have always appreciated pushiness and assertiveness in a woman and wish there were more of us like that.

    Blog text (8)
  • "All her resentment of Diana's pushiness came out on the last word—so much so that Diana laughed.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • I need your pushiness and lack of boundaries.

  • His pushiness grows on you.

  • As for pushiness, well... yeah, I'm kinda known for that.

    Blog text (8)
  • I agree with Cynthia L. that I always thought it avoided the pushiness of "possible convert."

    Blog text (9)
  • But, most importantly, do not cross the line into forcefulness and pushiness.

    Blog text (3)
  • Anna was a little like Jill, whose chatter and pushiness got on Lindsay's nerves, but who could be great fun sometimes.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • The salesperson's pushiness made many customers uncomfortable during their visit.

  • Her pushiness in meetings often overshadowed more reasonable suggestions from her colleagues.

Synonyms

insistence
vspushiness
57 3.5

Asking or saying something firmly and not giving up

is the more aggressive, pushy form aimed at forcing compliance quickly
forcefulness
vspushiness
2 5.1

A strong, clear, and confident quality in speech, action, or physical strength

is more specifically about pressing others insistently rather than just strength
bossiness
vspushiness
1 4.3

Telling people what to do in a controlling way

is more about pressing requests than organizing or directing people
high-handedness
vspushiness
  • Formal
1 8.4

Treating people in a rude, bossy way and not listening to them

is more about pushing for a specific outcome than asserting superiority
officiousness
vspushiness
1 9.2

A way of trying to help that people do not want and find annoying

is more about pressing for action rather than offering unasked assistance
heavy-handedness
vspushiness
1 7.6

Being too forceful and not subtle in actions or words

is more about verbal pressing rather than clumsy physical or tactical force
bumptiousness
vspushiness
9.9

A rude, annoying way of showing too much confidence

is more about being forceful to get a result rather than sheer self-confidence
forwardness
vspushiness
  • Offensive
7.0

Bold behaviour that is rude and makes people uncomfortable

is more about pushing people or requests rather than mere inappropriate boldness
overbearingness
vspushiness
8.3

Being too bossy and trying to control other people

is less about long-term control and more about immediate forceful urging
domineeringness
vspushiness
9.2

Being overly controlling and not listening to others

is closer to brief aggressive urging rather than steady domination
overaggressiveness
vspushiness
8.4

A way of acting that is too forceful and hostile in words or actions

is similar but focuses on pushing requests rather than outright hostility
importunateness
vspushiness
  • Formal
9.9

Repeatedly asking for something in a way that annoys people

pushes more to get agreement now rather than simply repeat requests
insistency
vspushiness
6.8

A firm, repeated demand for an answer or action

is about pressing immediately and forcefully rather than steady persistence
instancy
vspushiness
9.9

A strong repeated request that does not stop

is more focused on aggressive urging now rather than ongoing persistence

Antonyms

3 5.1

A quiet, gentle way of behaving that avoids arguing or complaining

A willingness to accept someone else's authority and follow them

How Assertive

bullying
  • Offensive
148 2.7
pushiness
1 6.1
reserve
9 5.2
timidity
7 5.8

Surface Forms

pushiness singular
pushinesses plural

Morphology

pushiness = pushy (transparent) = push + y + ness

Formed by the regular adjectival derivation push -> pushy and nominalization with -ness, so the meaning is directly predictable from the base.

Etymology

The word pushiness comes from the simple verb push, which means 'to press or move', plus the ending -ness that makes it a word about a quality. So pushiness is the quality of 'pushing' others, meaning being too forceful or too forward, which often annoys people.