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to bend over backwards

to bend over backwards

24 4.9
To try very hard to help someone or make them happy
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : hacer todo lo posible
  • The staff bent over backwards to ensure every guest felt welcome at the event.

Most men will bend over backwards to get the chicks attention right?

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Examples

Synonyms

to go out of one's way
vsto bend over backwards
  • Informal
53 3.5

Make a special effort to do something, often to help someone

focuses on helping or pleasing people rather than achieving wider goals
to go above and beyond
vsto bend over backwards
26 3.7

To do more than is required to help others or complete a task

focuses on helping or pleasing others rather than general extra effort
to fall over backwards
vsto bend over backwards
  • Informal
4.8

To try very hard to please or help someone more than needed

emphasizes more than expected rather than more than necessary

Antonyms

100 3.5

Not caring for someone or something that needs care

4 9.2

To be hard to explain or understand

How Helpful

to move heaven and earth
  • Informal
7 4.2
to bend over backwards
  • Informal
24 4.9
to go out of one's way
  • Informal
53 3.5
to lend a hand
  • Informal
28 1.3

Surface Forms

bend over backwards infinitive
bending over backwards present participle
bends over backwards third person singular
bent over backwards past participle

Morphology

bend + over + backward

The phrase evokes a clear literal image (bending one’s body backwards) that maps metaphorically onto the idea of exerting extreme effort, so a learner knowing 'bend' and 'backwards' can infer a general sense of doing something extreme. However, the specific pragmatic meaning 'make an extra effort to help or please someone' and the social nuance are not fully predictable from the parts alone, so prior exposure helps; thus it is only partly transparent.

Etymology

The phrasal verb bend over backwards comes from the image of someone bending their body very far back; the words bend, over, and backwards show that real movement to reach or help another person. So it means 'to make a great effort to help or please someone'.