to be a martyr
- idiom
- Many believe that to be a martyr is to sacrifice oneself for a noble cause.
- want to be a martyr
- try not to be a martyr
- just won't be a martyr
I also refuse to be a martyr to an antiquated idea of motherhood.
- I also refuse to be a martyr to an antiquated idea of motherhood.
- You know, I think before I really valued being a martyr.
Examples
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If they kill me, then I'm a martyr.
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Thomas Ball is a martyr for men's rights.
Blog text (28) -
You want to be a martyr?
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I could at least be a martyr.
Fiction book (2000) -
Ryan, you need to stop being a martyr, okay?
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Sarah, don't be a martyr.
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No, I'm not; I just won't be a martyr and spend my life cleaning up after other members of my family.
Fiction book (2000) -
Revolution is a mindset that needs those involved to sacrifice what they have for the good of others and the change of rule; any revolutionary is prepared to be a martyr.
Blog text (30) -
I don’t want to be a martyr.
Fiction book (1995) -
He decided to be a martyr for his friends by taking the blame for a mistake he didn't make.
Synonyms
Give up something important to help someone or reach a goal
To give up something important to help other people or reach a long-term goal
Accept a big risk to protect other people
Antonyms
How Self-Sacrificing
Surface Forms
Morphology
This is a simple predicative combination: knowing 'martyr' (a person who suffers or sacrifices) together with 'be' and the article 'a' allows a learner to infer 'to be a martyr' as to act or suffer as a martyr. The modern nuance of suffering unnecessarily or to gain sympathy is a direct, predictable extension of the noun's meaning and is cross-linguistically common, so the expression is transparent.
Etymology
Be a martyr comes from the old idea of a martyr, someone who suffered or died for a belief or cause. So today, when someone chooses to be a martyr by refusing help or doing all the work, it means they are 'suffering' or 'giving up things' often to 'get sympathy'.