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martyr

martyr

33 5.9
A person who pretends to suffer to get sympathy
  • noun
  • /ˈmɑrtər/
  • Offensive
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  • You need to stop playing the martyr.

And I just think there comes a time and I'm not, I'm not a martyr.

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Examples

  • No, I'm not; I just won't be a martyr and spend my life cleaning up after other members of my family.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Don't be a martyr.

  • I will not make a martyr of him.

  • A partnership, married or not, where one partner is a martyr, is a disaster!

    Blog text (23)
  • There is less incentive for him to try and make a martyr out of himself in class.

    Blog text (2)
  • Raj, stop playing the martyr.

  • I don't want to be seen as a martyr, Woman Officer Moss.

  • I also refuse to be a martyr to an antiquated idea of motherhood.

  • Publicity, loneliness, a martyr complex; they proffered these with regard to Jo Lynn.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • You need to stop playing the martyr; your constant suffering is exhausting everyone around you.

Synonyms

professional victim
vsmartyr
  • Offensive
8.2

A person who often pretends to suffer to get attention or personal gain

is not a steady pattern but occasional acts aimed at sympathy or special treatment
simulant
vsmartyr
  • Offensive
8.4

A person who pretends to be ill to avoid work

seeks sympathy, praise, or special favors rather than escaping obligations

Idioms

Act like you suffer or give up things for others to get sympathy

Compounds

9.9

An attack where someone blows themselves up to kill or hurt others for a cause

A young king of England from 975 to 978 who became a saint after he was killed

How Self-Pitying

attention whore
  • Offensive
2 9.9
martyr
  • Offensive
33 5.9
whiner
  • Offensive
23 4.3
victim
1.5

Surface Forms

martyr singular
martyrs plural

Etymology

Martyr can also mean someone who pretends to suffer to get sympathy. A helpful way to remember this is that the original idea of a 'witness' who suffered was turned into a picture of a person who shows pain to win attention.