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backhanded compliment

backhanded compliment

2 7.5
A remark that sounds like praise but secretly insults someone
  • noun
  • /ˈbækˌhændɪd kəmˈplɪmənt/
  • Offensive
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  • When she told me, "You look great for your age," it felt like a backhanded compliment.

I'm considered a clean comedian, which is a very backhanded compliment.

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Examples

  • And the NY Times will continue to give backhanded compliments.

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  • I'll take that backhanded compliment before we get into that conversation.

  • I will accept your backhanded compliment.

  • Always with the backhanded compliment.

  • That was a pretty backhanded compliment.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • It was what is considered a backhanded compliment.

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  • You note that Jobs' harshest critics have recently started allowing some backhanded compliments.

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  • I admit that the last sentence is about the biggest backhanded compliment I've ever given someone.

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  • In other words, you offer backhanded compliments while knocking the QB's play.

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  • Sam: This will sound like a backhanded compliment, and yes, in a way it is, but one of the strengths of the film is its running time.

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Synonyms

left-handed compliment
vsbackhanded compliment
  • Offensive
1 7.7

A remark that seems like praise but also insults someone

emphasizes subtle real insult or criticism rather than mere insincerity

Antonyms

342 1.6

A polite remark that praises someone or something

How Insulting

insult
  • Offensive
313 1.3
backhanded compliment
  • Offensive
2 7.5
compliment
342 1.6

Surface Forms

Morphology

backhanded + compliment

If a learner knows 'backhanded' as meaning ambiguous or insincere and 'compliment' as praise, the combined meaning — a remark that looks like praise but is actually insulting — is directly derivable from the constituents. The adjective+noun composition follows a regular pattern, so the sense is transparently predictable to learners who know both words.

Etymology

The phrase backhanded compliment may come from the idea of a backhanded slap, a rude hit with the back of the hand, so the compliment really hurts. That's why it means 'praise' that is actually an 'insult'.