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ambivalence

ambivalence

30 7.8
A state of having both positive and negative feelings about someone or something
  • noun
  • /æmˈbɪvələns/
translation icon : ambivalencia
  • His ambivalence towards the project was evident; he couldn't decide whether to support it or not.
  • express ambivalence
  • social ambivalence
  • profound ambivalence

And the back and forth can look like ambivalence to other people and to ourselves.

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Examples

  • There was nothing to support her ambivalence, nothing tangible that she could put her hands around.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • His account expresses the Vietnam veteran's ambivalence and confusion, his sense of duty and betrayal.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • So then we come to the more the negative part of my ambivalence, the other side of it.

  • At the same time, his presence caused a real ambivalence in her feelings.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • I think working through ambivalence or through uncertainty is an important thing.

  • I got a feeling of overwhelming ambivalence.

  • Teachers, in general, seem to voice a sense of ambivalence as to the intended outcome of evaluation.

    Academic text (1992)
  • Don't you think that this whole process is about getting to your feelings of ambivalence?

  • Juanita Encinas regularly sees the kind of behavior that leads to ambivalence about American justice.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Insulated by the presence of the two boys, my post-divorce ambivalence toward relationships had begun to melt.

    Fiction book (1993)

Synonyms

confliction
vsambivalence
1 7.6

An inner struggle between opposing beliefs or desires

means mixed attitudes without stressing an active inner struggle
ambivalency
vsambivalence
8.0

A state of having mixed feelings about someone or something

is the alternate form or spelling for this same state
dividedness
vsambivalence
7.2

A feeling of strong conflict inside a person about two different loyalties

focuses on internal mixed feelings rather than group loyalties

Antonyms

certainty
  • Literature
202 3.4

A strong feeling that something is true or will happen

5 3.2

The ability to choose quickly and confidently

How Conflicted

turmoil
138 4.8
conflict
236 3.0
ambivalence
30 7.8
uncertainty
296 4.0
doubt
1.6

Surface Forms

ambivalence singular
ambivalences plural

Morphology

ambivalence = ambivalent (semi-transparent) = ambi + valent

The noun is a regular nominalization of the adjective 'ambivalent' (predictable formation: ambivalent -> ambivalence).

Etymology

The word ambivalence comes from two parts: ambi- meaning 'both' (as in ambidextrous) and valence meaning 'strength' or 'value' (think 'value'). Think of it as two strong feelings pulling you in different directions, which is why ambivalence means having mixed or opposite feelings.