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upstage

upstage

7.3
Showing a proud or distant attitude that makes you hard to talk to
  • adjective
  • /ˈʌpˌsteɪdʒ/
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  • Her upstage attitude made her seem unapproachable to new colleagues.

Examples

  • He was criticized for being too upstage with clients he didn't know well.

  • Despite his popularity, he remained upstage at social events and rarely joined in conversations.

  • She always acts so upstage during meetings.

  • His upstage attitude makes it hard to work with him.

  • Her upstage behavior during the meeting made her colleagues feel excluded.

  • Many found his upstage demeanor off-putting, as he rarely connected with others.

  • His tendency to act upstage led his teammates to avoid him.

Synonyms

distant
vsupstage
61 4.9

Not friendly or warm, behaving in a quiet, cold way

emphasizes deliberate superiority rather than mere social reserve
aloof
vsupstage
34 6.3

Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people

is about acting deliberately superior rather than just staying emotionally distant
overweening
vsupstage
  • Formal
2 9.8

Too much pride and confidence that makes people dislike you

expresses measured distant superiority rather than unchecked pride or ambition
jumped-up
vsupstage
  • Offensive
1 9.8

Act like you are more important than you are after a promotion

focuses on deliberate superiority rather than temporary status pretence
uppish
vsupstage
8.8

Being very proud and acting like you are better than others

is about distant superiority rather than openly proud or arrogant behaviour

Antonyms

222 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

How Aloof

snobbish
  • Offensive
7 5.3
upstage
7.3
standoffish
9 7.1
distant
61 4.9
reserved
3.7

Surface Forms

upstage positive

Morphology

upstage = stage (semi-transparent) = up + stage

The compound is transparently 'up' + 'stage', but the adjectival sense 'aloof; deliberately superior' is a metaphorical extension from theatrical positioning/behavior and may not be obvious to learners. [Postprocessing: moved 'up' from base_words to prefix]

Etymology

Upstage (adjective, aloof) is a helpful way to remember someone who stands 'up' and apart like the back of a stage; if a person is upstage they seem distant or a bit proud.