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up your own ass

up your own ass

9.9
A person who thinks they are better than other people
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : engreído
  • Try not to be up your own ass during meetings—it puts people off.

Examples

  • The manager's always up her own ass and never acknowledges the team's efforts.

  • He is always up his own ass about his achievements.

  • He is so up his own ass that he can't see anyone else's point of view.

  • Stop being so up your own ass!

  • He is so up his own ass that he thinks his ideas are the only ones that matter.

  • The politician is always up her own ass, ignoring the concerns of her constituents.

  • It's frustrating to work with someone who is constantly up their own ass and dismisses other opinions.

Synonyms

stuck-up
vsup your own ass
  • Offensive
22 7.5

A person who thinks they are better than other people

is more loudly self-absorbed and annoying rather than just snobbish
self-involved
vsup your own ass
9 7.0

Being only interested in your own needs and feelings

is more arrogant and irritating, not merely inwardly focused
up her own ass
vsup your own ass
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who is very proud and only thinks about themselves

is identical in meaning but differs in pronoun and gender form
the cat's ass
vsup your own ass
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who thinks they are much more important than they are

is similar but more general and less playful or praising
full of oneself
vsup your own ass
  • Informal
6.9

Thinking you are better than other people

is more annoyingly arrogant and self-absorbed than mere pride
stuck-on-herself
vsup your own ass
  • Offensive
9.9

Thinks she is much better than other people

is more openly rude and arrogant rather than only self-focused

Antonyms

222 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

72 3.2

Caring more about other people's needs than your own

How Self-Absorbed

egomaniacal
  • Offensive
6 8.6
up your own ass
  • Offensive
9.9
full of oneself
  • Informal
6.9
self-centered
  • US
56 3.9

Surface Forms

up your own ass positive

Morphology

up + your + own + ass

The phrase is a vulgar, metaphorical expression whose literal parts ('your own' + 'ass') point to self-directedness, but the specific meaning 'extremely self‑absorbed/arrogant' is not directly predictable from the bodily image alone. A B1 learner who knows the words might guess a self-related idea but would likely not arrive at the conventional pragmatic sense without prior exposure, so the expression is partially but not fully transparent.

Etymology

The idiom up your own ass may come from the silly image of someone with their head pushed so far up their own ass that they cannot see or hear other people. That's why the phrase means 'extremely self-absorbed' or 'so full of yourself'.