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up her own ass

up her own ass

1 9.9
A person who is very proud and only thinks about themselves
  • idiom
  • Offensive
: egocéntrica (vulgar, ofensivo)
  • Anyone who doesn't have his head up his own ass can see where this Fed-induced mania will end.

Examples

  • She is so focused on her own success that it's hard to talk to her; she's really got her head up her own ass.

  • Oh, I know, when he made it loud and clear he only cared about his own interests and was pretty much delusional. I told him he needed to open up his mind and that I was surprised he hadn't suffocated due to his head being so far up his own ass, and I ignored the rest of the dumb stuff he continued to write. Lmao!

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  • His constant bragging makes it clear that he's just up his own ass and doesn't care about anyone else's opinions.

  • It's frustrating dealing with someone who's so up her own ass that she can't see the bigger picture.

Synonyms

stuck-up
vsup her own ass
  • Offensive
39 7.5

A person who thinks they are better than other people

is more inwardly obsessed and focused on self rather than status
self-involved
vsup her own ass
12 7.0

Being only interested in your own needs and feelings

is more openly proud and egotistical rather than just self-focused
self-conceited
vsup her own ass
1 7.7

Thinking you are better than other people

is more all-consuming in self-focus and pride
stuck-on-herself
vsup her own ass
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Thinks she is much better than other people

is more extreme in inward conceit and personal self-importance
full of oneself
vsup her own ass
  • Informal
1 6.9

Thinking you are better than other people

is more intensely self-absorbed and egotistical than that description

Antonyms

238 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

65 3.2

Caring more about other people's needs than your own

How Self-Absorbed

narcissistic
53 7.8
up her own ass
  • Offensive
1 9.9
egotistical
  • Offensive
23 6.6
conceited
24 5.4
self-centered
  • US
59 3.9
self-seeking
2 6.9

Surface Forms

up her own ass positive

Morphology

up + her + own + ass

The literal meanings of 'up', 'her', 'own' and 'ass' (direction, possession, and a body part) do not transparently compose to the meaning 'extremely self-absorbed'; the phrase is a crude idiom/metaphor whose figurative sense is culturally specific. A B1 learner who knows the individual words would be unlikely to infer the idiomatic meaning without prior exposure, so this should be treated as opaque.

Etymology

Up her own ass is a rude image: imagine someone's head pushed so far up their own ass that they only see themselves. So it means being 'self-absorbed' or 'full of themselves'.