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undateable

undateable

1 6.5
Not seen as someone others want to date
  • adjective
  • /ʌnˈdeɪtəbl/
  • Offensive
translation icon : indeseable (como pareja)
  • I was very social, but I was undateable because I approached the scene, Kathleen remembers in a drunken rage.

Examples

  • She was convinced she was undateable due to her awkwardness in social situations.

  • Many people feel undateable because they believe they don't fit society's beauty standards.

  • After several failed relationships, he started to think of himself as undateable.

Synonyms

unattractive
vsundateable
37 1.8

Not pleasant to look at or to the senses

is about being unsuitable for dating rather than general looks
unappealing
vsundateable
15 4.1

Not attractive, pleasant, or interesting

focuses specifically on being unlikely to be chosen as a partner
charmless
vsundateable
2 4.2

Not pleasant or attractive

is used when someone is judged unfit for dating because of lack of charm
unhandsome
vsundateable
1 6.6

Not attractive to look at

emphasizes romantic suitability rather than only facial or body looks
undatable
vsundateable
  • Offensive
8.9

A person others do not choose as a romantic partner

is the standard form for that same dating unsuitability
unalluring
vsundateable
6.8

Not attractive or interesting

signals unsuitability for dating because it fails to attract romantic interest

Antonyms

680 1.0

Pleasing to look at or enjoy and making people interested

How Dateable

desirable
121 3.2
dateable
  • Informal
1 5.8
undateable
  • Offensive
1 6.5
unattractive
37 1.8
unappealing
15 4.1

Surface Forms

undateable positive

Morphology

undateable = datable (transparent) = un + date + able

Regular prefixation of 'un-' to 'datable' yields 'not able to be dated' applied to the social meaning of 'date'; colloquial but morphologically transparent.

Etymology

Undateable comes from the prefix un- meaning 'not' and the word date meaning 'a romantic meeting' or 'to go out with someone'. So, undateable describes someone seen as 'not suitable to go on a date', which is why the word means not considered likely to be chosen for dating.