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undatable

undatable

8.9
A person others do not choose as a romantic partner
  • adjective
  • /ˌʌnˈdeɪtəbl/
  • Offensive
translation icon : indeseable (como pareja)
  • And-And since John's game is that he always has a date... to get even with a guy like that, you make him... undatable.

Examples

  • Many people believe that being too shy can make you feel undatable in today's dating scene.

  • She felt undatable after several failed relationships and started doubting herself.

  • His lack of self-confidence left him feeling undatable, despite his many good qualities.

Synonyms

undesirable
vsundatable
31 4.6

Not wanted because it is unpleasant, harmful, or causes problems

is narrower, focusing on romantic rejection rather than general undesirability
unattractive
vsundatable
16 2.5

Not interesting or likely to make people want it

applies specifically to not being chosen for romance
unappealing
vsundatable
15 4.1

Not attractive, pleasant, or interesting

focuses on dating suitability rather than broad dislike
uninviting
vsundatable
2 4.6

Not pleasant or welcoming and likely to keep people away

is about personal romantic choice rather than places or objects
unlovely
vsundatable
1 6.0

Not attractive and unpleasant to see or hear

centers on being unlikely to be picked as a partner
undateable
vsundatable
  • Offensive
1 6.5

Not seen as someone others want to date

is the same meaning but spelled without that extra letter
unhandsome
vsundatable
1 6.6

Not attractive to look at

signals unsuitability for dating rather than general look alone
uncharming
vsundatable
1 4.5

Not pleasant to be with or attractive to look at

emphasizes dating unsuitability rather than only manners
unalluring
vsundatable
6.8

Not attractive or interesting

is specifically about being unsuitable as a romantic partner

Antonyms

680 1.0

Pleasing to look at or enjoy and making people interested

How Dateable

desirable
121 3.2
dateable
  • Informal
1 5.8
undatable
  • Offensive
8.9
unattractive
37 1.8
unappealing
15 4.1

Surface Forms

undatable positive

Morphology

undatable = datable (transparent) = un + date + able

Built by negating 'datable' (date + -able) in the informal sense 'suitable to date'; the slang meaning follows regular negative derivation.

Etymology

Undatable in informal speech also breaks into un- 'not', date 'go out with someone', and -able 'able to'. A helpful way to remember this slang use is that it means someone is seen as 'not able to be dated'—that is, judged unlikely to be chosen as a romantic partner, and that label can be hurtful.